hi,, once again bluebelle and neverending,, i do appreciate indeed your support and very thankful for that.. one thing more,,we have been receiving letters from creditors that the letter content saying as if they have not been informed yet about my IVA and the creditors meeting, asking to phone them and talk to them regarding my financial situation and says if they could do something about it,and if not they will take legal actions, just curious though if the creditors meeting is already set why they are still writing us as if know nothing about the IVA coz i would expect them to send me default letters instead..
really.. most of the time i feel i'm going to have nervous breakdown even at work myself always nervous,my heartbeat goes so fast at times, and what i always do to calm down myself is go to this iva forum and read your experiences and comments and emotional supports to each and everyone who are at the same boat as me which and as what i have said giving me relief, i cried most of the time if i'm alone feeling guilty and ashame of what i've been into to the people around me thinking they are aware of my situation
i know i should think positive for my IVA but i'm nervous because i don't know obviously what will happen on the creditors meeting and what will i do if they decided bankcruptcy instead which I dont want to happen,.
my biggest creditor is natwest and my husband is barclays in where we have our main current accounts,, my mortgage is with natwest, we have 13 creditors all together and i am so under pressure what is on thier minds though i know they are all not happy about me but as what you've said what can i do for now is wait miserably hoping for their approval.
anyway thank you for being a shoulder to cry on and please if anymore you can share while waiting for my meeting that will be greatly appreciated.. a very heartful thanks to all of you..
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