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mole

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Post by mole » Tue Apr 16, 2013 8:56 am
The guy seemed to need to get some urgent advice and many forum members spent some time trying to re-assure and guide him to an export?

Can't see the thread this morning?
 
 

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Post by Hyperdrive » Tue Apr 16, 2013 9:10 am
Andy closed it. To be fair there were 10 pages of advice and not much more to say - he needed to speak to an expert 1 to 1
 
 

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Post by Hyperdrive » Tue Apr 16, 2013 9:14 am
Forget that, new name, it`s still here but I guess it can`t be added to.
 
 

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Post by cunningstunt » Tue Apr 16, 2013 10:22 am
I guess theres a bit more to it as well

Now off of both forums and stopped posting. Probably would of been wise if a bit more information was given.

My gut feel is that it could of been someone a bit lonely and looking for attention who did have money issues.
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Post by MelanieGiles » Tue Apr 16, 2013 1:47 pm
I spoke to this person at length last night - it is clear that he is struggling with a number of issues, but thankfully we have found a sensible way forward for him I am sure you will all be pleased to know.

I don't think he asked for his post to be deleted, however both he and I felt that the interaction on the forum was not helping him - especially at the point when some posters questioned the content of his posts and his integrity. This is not usual on the forum, but as I have said on other posts, I don't feel that the forum is as supportive as I remember it in earlier days - and Ox has unfortunately become a victim of this.

He would like thank the people who took their time out during busy working days, and in their own leisure time during the evening, to post messages of support, encouragement and advice. Occasionally that can become overwhelming, and may add to confusion, so for now he is focussing on prioritising the issues, and working things through with his incredibly supportive family.

I am sure he will be back soon, to let us know about his own individul success story.
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Post by Skippy » Tue Apr 16, 2013 2:23 pm
Thank you for the update Mel and good luck to Ox.
 
 

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Post by Shining » Tue Apr 16, 2013 2:52 pm
Glad he's found a way forward with your expert help and guidance Mel. I'm glad he got to speak to you and I'd like to say good luck to him in his chosen way forward.
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Post by josu » Tue Apr 16, 2013 4:05 pm
Thank you for the update he has kept popping into my mind and i must admit i was worried for him.
 
 

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Post by luluj » Tue Apr 16, 2013 4:47 pm
Fully understand Mel and want to wish Ox all the best. When and if he is ready to return to the forum he will be most welcome x
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Post by abbiesmum2003 » Tue Apr 16, 2013 5:00 pm
Lovely to hear that hes made contact with you and thank you for the update. I hope he has found a solution and glad to hear he has a supportive family. I hope one day he is strong enough to return here.
 
 

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Post by Foggy » Tue Apr 16, 2013 5:02 pm
I am pleased that he finally spoke to Mel and hope that he finds his path.
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