I spoke to this person at length last night - it is clear that he is struggling with a number of issues, but thankfully we have found a sensible way forward for him I am sure you will all be pleased to know.
I don't think he asked for his post to be deleted, however both he and I felt that the interaction on the forum was not helping him - especially at the point when some posters questioned the content of his posts and his integrity. This is not usual on the forum, but as I have said on other posts, I don't feel that the forum is as supportive as I remember it in earlier days - and Ox has unfortunately become a victim of this.
He would like thank the people who took their time out during busy working days, and in their own leisure time during the evening, to post messages of support, encouragement and advice. Occasionally that can become overwhelming, and may add to confusion, so for now he is focussing on prioritising the issues, and working things through with his incredibly supportive family.
I am sure he will be back soon, to let us know about his own individul success story.
Glad he's found a way forward with your expert help and guidance Mel. I'm glad he got to speak to you and I'd like to say good luck to him in his chosen way forward.
IVA final payment left the bank on the 26th January 2013...looking forward to a debt free future.
Lovely to hear that hes made contact with you and thank you for the update. I hope he has found a solution and glad to hear he has a supportive family. I hope one day he is strong enough to return here.