My other two are not really bothered about toys although the staffie cross will play tug with Topsy. I am still trying to find a softish toy they can't destroy!
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Well I would have to say that my hubby Ian and his 3 children keep me going. The children come every weekend and we always have such a good time. There are 2 girls age 16 and 10 and 1 boy age 13. I dunno where I would be without them. I enjoy my job but I always lng for the weekend when they come to us.
For relaxation I would have to say reading. When I am reading I am transported to another world away form the IVA and debts and bills and money. I also do a lot of cross stitch which helps me unwind.
I would have to say the big thing is that I am a christian so church is a big part of everything. I am also an officer on Boys Brigade which i love doing and we are off to camp in Oswestry in July.
What I tend to do though is in my diary I have this year and next year 'at a glance' and every week I love crossing off the weeks and looking forward to next July when it will all be over. its great to see us getting nearer to the end.xx
Its now time to start living and to make some some wonderful memories!
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I was in the boys brigade from primary school through to my early adulthood when i was an officer for a while. I loved all the things we did there, camping, canoeing, rock climbing, orienteering, archery, games over the field you name it we done it. Miss it at times even now. 1st Romford was where I was based and Dave Everson was in charge.
I really think children who go to scouts or boys brigade or air cadets etc don't get bored and don't go round vandalising or other stupid things due to boredom. More kids should go along to these places to improve their minds, socialise and pick up on essential life skills.
I love reading and can get through four or five books a week - all from the library.
I am an only child and have always loved my own company and have always said that I will become a recluse in my old age surrounded by dogs!
When I was a kid I did Brownies and Guides, as did my daughter. Hubby used to be a Scout Leader.
Not religious at all - it's weddings, christenings and funerals for me I'm afraid.
Hate camping with a passion!
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The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
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I love reading as well, but I have to be in the mood. We are going away at the weekend so I'll make sure I've got plenty of books as if the weather isn't great I'll be able to get through a few.
I'm an only child as well, and I can imagine being a mad old lady surrounded by cats!
I am religious but don't practice what I preach. My childhood was brought up within a church community and to be fair I think that's what has put me off religion. I do pray and I do believe but do not go to church and I insisted all my children went to church schools.
IVA final payment left the bank on the 26th January 2013...looking forward to a debt free future.
I used to go to church and Sunday School every week when I was younger. I even became a Sunday School teacher when I was 16!
I'm afraid I don't pray and my daughter and the stepkids didn't go to church schools.
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The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
I went last December for a Christening, but my overall memory is of how cold I was!
It may sound silly, but I have always been sympathetic towards Judaism and have often thought of converting.
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The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
I had a religious upbringing and kind of rebelled against it for a long time.Now I find myself believing and praying more & more.As well as questioning too. Dad in law is a minister [:)]
My daughter has been christened, didn't cost us a lot and I think I probably did it because it was expected of me by my parents.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
I am christened, believe somethings there but not quite sure what religious views. I do believe in energy though and with my reiki I am very perceptive of peoples energy and when they are manipulating it etc
As for the original essence of this thread what keeps you going. Well peeps I Am flying to Malta in June THAT'S GONNA KEEP ME GOING WOOHOOO!!!
Never been to Malta so I am mega excited and looking forward to spending time with friends
1. Holiday, big big holiday after this process, a few months saving then holiday, 2 weeks in the sun in 2 years time, and knowing i will be able to pay it off in one go, in cash!
2. Piece of mind, my bills are paid and i can manage my money better!
3. Another plan/idea is maybe i could step down at work and really enjoy life, ethier that or get promoted and earn more money but never have time to spend it!!
