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Post by look_divine » Mon Sep 01, 2008 10:48 pm
have left a message on melanies website hopefully they wont ring me when hubby is in as things are so bad here i dont want fuel adding to the fire as they say
so thanks to everyone for pointing me in the right direction i just hope melanie can help me
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Post by Lisa2009 » Mon Sep 01, 2008 10:52 pm
First step to a new life. Well done you and best of luck xxxx
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Post by look_divine » Mon Sep 01, 2008 10:53 pm
im really scared they cant help me mrs skint i really really dont want to go bankrupt :(
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Mon Sep 01, 2008 10:55 pm
You've done the right thing. Melanie will point you in the right direction.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
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Post by look_divine » Mon Sep 01, 2008 10:56 pm
i know im a nervous wreck jsut want to be sorted and out of this sh*t hole :(
 
 

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Post by Viki.W » Mon Sep 01, 2008 10:58 pm
That's good news LD, I'm glad you have taken that all important step. Let us all know how you get on. You'll definitely get good advice. X
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Post by Til » Mon Sep 01, 2008 10:59 pm
Hi LD,
Well done for taking that all important first step - you are on your way hun [:)]

One thing I have learned is there is always a way our of debt and none of those 'ways' are as scary as they seem from a distance. We are in IVA and despite feeling terrified of it at first we now feel secure. I am sure many who chose BR will say the same.

Either way Melanies team gets tonnes of praise and that is for a reason so sure you will soon have a plan and feel happier about what will ultimately be a more settled and debt free future.
"Hope is the feeling you have that the feeling you have isn't permanent." - Jean Kerr

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Post by Lisa2009 » Mon Sep 01, 2008 10:59 pm
Please try not to be scared. You will get very honest advice from Melanie and her team. Very soon your life will turn for the better one way or another.

I really do wish you the very best and hope things start to get better very very soon xxxx
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Post by look_divine » Mon Sep 01, 2008 11:01 pm
i know your all right, is a scary thing admitting your in debt etc
hoping to god they dont ring me when hubby is in fingers crossed xxx
 
 

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Post by Lisa2009 » Mon Sep 01, 2008 11:06 pm
I'm sure Melanie will pick up on this thread and be able to put your mind at rest.
It is very scary. I didnt have the IVA, hubby did but believe me, when it was all being prepared i was so scared it made me ill.
We can all relate to the feelings you are having.

Just keep reminding yourself that these are all small steps towards your new beginning xxxx
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Post by tori » Mon Sep 01, 2008 11:08 pm
you will get great advice from melanie and team Ld.i was convinced that i would have to go bankrupt,as i didnt think i had enough disp.income.but i was very relieved to be told i was actually able to propose an iva.im sure you will be just fine.the hardest part is taking that first step,but you've done that now so you're well on your way to finding a solution.hope you manage to get sorted out with everything asap..[:)]x
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Post by look_divine » Mon Sep 01, 2008 11:08 pm
so much going on my head is totally boggled
thanks everyone xxx
 
 

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Post by look_divine » Mon Sep 01, 2008 11:12 pm
i just dont want bankrupcy a lady at work went bankrupt and everyone was showing everyone her name in the paper, id be devastated if they all knew :(
 
 

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Post by Til » Mon Sep 01, 2008 11:15 pm
I understand LD - with me my dad reads local paper cover to cover so knew he would see it and that would have broke my heart so that's why we have to make our IVA work - I am sure you will be ok - Melanie gets great praise for a reason so you are in safe hands
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Post by look_divine » Mon Sep 01, 2008 11:18 pm
id be thinking im a criminal being in the paper
oh well lets just see what they have to say i presume melanie wont answer herself?
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