Warning, major moan, house is bad luck???

[lily]

I am sooo fed up right now, had a total crisis with my son, cant go into details, wouldnt be fair. I moved here for an extra room and the whole thing isnt working, I need to change things around, health problem keep coming back, just dont seem to be able to stay on my feet for longer than a couple of weeks, sick of all that, really b***** am. I just dont know how I am going to move everything, I have tons of rubbish to get rid of. Someone keeps phoning about claiming bank charges back, what is that all about???? What the hell is it to them if I dont do it??? Some nasty peice of work has tried to break into my sons car, my main comp has just gone kaboom. Dont you just feel sometimes, you could just drive yourself off the edge of a cliff??? (not that I ever would)............ Arrrrgh. I am getting seiously concerned about this house, its just plain, simple bad luck, its built right on the edge of a cemetary and I am wondering if by any chance, its flipping jinxed. Any bad thats going just seems to happen and I cant see straight. Is there such a thing as a bad luck house???? If there is this is it.

[chris.g]

Yeap AND I reckon you live in it!!!!!!!
Seriously, everything DOES seem to happen altogether and I think it's just because we are already feeling low. Life has a habit of tossing s**t at us but the knack is to keep getting up and smiling, hard I know, but do it just to p**s life off, he ain't going to beat you!!!!![:D]

[cat 1]

Oh Lily.It seems the time of year for some of us.How long have you lived at the house? Hope you and your son feeling better soon.Don't go near any cliffs! CAT

[emma_t]

Hey lily, sorry to hear you are having abd time of it lately.
I don't think it is an unlucky house just an c*ap time for you at the moment when everything that can go wrong seems to go wrong.
I hink once a few bad things happen you start to wait for the next bad thing[:(]

I am sure your luck will pick up soon, are you going to Birmingham on Sat?
When I first came ont the forum a number of pple helped me to feel more positive and you are one of those people so would be great to meet you and thank you in person.

You always seem to have a great way of writing posts that will pick people up it is hard to send one back to you as I am not so good with words as you seem to be.

Have a relax and a cuppa and hugs to you[:)]
Emma x

[mike.s]

Hi Lily, really sorry things are going bad for you at the moment. As Emma says you have been a huge help to many on the forum, me included, and a source of strength, inspiration and comfort. I don't know how I would have got through the last few months without your help and support. It is sad to hear you are down at the moment, but we are all here for you and sending you good thoughts. It helped me a huge amount to know that you and everyone on the forum were there for me, I hope it helps you to know that we are all thinking of you and hope you get back on your feet soon. Hope you feel better soon and everything gets sorted out for you and your son.
All the best Lily
Mike

[SharonOR]

Lily, know just how you feel. I have a never ending sense of doom every time I walk into this house. Having the Landlady from hell doesn't help. Not having the money to move is also adding to everything. I wish for you a peaceful and fabulous new home. I will ask all the angels to protect you in yourpresent one. Someone told me today that unless I make peace with my present home I cannot move on to a new one. So we started spring cleaning and bining everythign which was old, not working, etc. I am not going to have a hot shower and imagine all the bad going down the plug hole.... I hope the same for you.

[lily]

Thanks everyone, I had fish and chips and feel a litle bit better.

I really do not know what I can do about my son, its a never ending battle with him I am kind of stumped with this one, apart from wringing is neck.

I have written everything down I need to do its a mountain but I will get there, I just need to swap with childrens bedrooms around and I think I can make it all work, I just need to get some muscles. The first thing is a skip, youre so right about the getting rid of stuff thing. I have surrounded myself with moms old stuff to try to help me hang on to the past and its a constant reminder of what is missing. Staring death in the face every morning isnt helping, there have been so many funerals today.

Mike (and everyone else) I do appreciate the support, like you wouldnt believe. Anyway I had a talk with a friend and she wants me to go on a course at college to do counselling, it starts after the Easter break. I did do it some years ago but the one I did as unacredited.

I have lived here a little over a year and I have never settled. Cant remember what it feels like to wake up and not feel burdened, still not out of debt..... I just want it to end, all of it.

Thanks everyone, all I can do is to keep trying.

[emma_t]

Lily you make a superb counsellor (I can't even speel it...LOL)

You have such a wonderful way with words and I am sure you would be fantastic at it[:)]

Can't offer any parenting tips as the only boy I have is my dog and he can't answer me back...LOL

I surrounded myself with my grandma's things when she passed as did not want to let her go. She was the only grandparent I ever had and lived with us all my childhood so we were so very close. Over the years I have kept all of the important stuff and let some of the less significant things go. It is so hard and I would not make any rash decisions if I were you, have a good think about it and mull it over.

Give your cats a good cuddle[:)]
Love and bes wishes to you Lily
Emma xx

[scaredkez]

the first thing i am going to say to you is take a deep breath and stay calm, you do too much at times, i am so sorry everything isn't going right at the mo, and knowing you the way i do, i know you will get through this as you are strong and always put your kids first and foremost.
i think the counselling course is excellent as you are a good listener and advisor.
as always thoughts are with you and you no where i am if you need me.
hugs kerri

[Dee]

Lily where in the country do you live there maybe someone on here who could help with the practicalities I am always lending my hubby out to help friends in need.

Hope you're feeling better soon.

Dee

[mish1953]

[}:)]

Scottish accent to be used - aka Dads Army
Lily ... living at the edge of a cemetery .. well your house is clearly posessed .. doomed I tell you .. doomed .. exorcism is the answer, its a good way of deposessing your house .. or in my case bankruptcy meant that exorcism was not needed .. as reposession had the same effect [8D]

The alternative way as you discovered is to have fish and chips as the combination of both salt & vineger upset the demons and deceased - mainly as they get pi&&ed off as they cant have any - and they then leave.

Regarding the manpower - contact your local social services - tell them that your house is possessed by demons and they will arranged to send some nice people round in white coats to help you - alternatively contact your local church tell them your house is possessed by demons and that you need some help - they will send round one elderly bloke dressed in black to help ...

Throw all the rubbish out but keep the salt & vineger [}:)]

I know this doesnt really help - but hopefully you smiled

Hugs
MIsh [:D]

[Lisa2009]

Lily, what a tough time you're having lately.
It seems so unfair when you are always helping others and get nothing but bad luck in return.

I do hope you sort the problems with your son whatever they are.

Im sure many of us on here would agree that you would make a great counsellor. Your compassion and advice on the forum has been amazing and through your own bad times, you continue to give it.
Keep smiling and keep yer chin up!!

xxxxxxx

[lily]

Thanks everyone, Mish I am smiling, youre such a tonic on this forum, right guys??

Well my friend has something to give me tomorrow, I dont know what but she said its sure to make or break me. I had a very good cry and she is coming a long way to see me. I hate to burnden anyone but I do feel better for it.

Onwards I hope, outwards with the rubbish, demons and bad and upwards with the mood. Youre simply the best, you lovely people you.

I am coming to Brum, if I havent gone ga ga by Saturday. Ang and Kerri, I have emailed you both.

Cheers.

[sblack]

Hi lily

Not sure what to say to make you feel better, just know that there are lots of people thinking about you at the moment and wishing you well.
Please take care and I hope everything works out for you.
xxx

[Reviva UK]

look forward to seeing you on saturday