Its like that sometimes, an onslaught. They have a computer that dials the number, if you answer, a bod has your details on screen. (sometimes they dont have the staff, and you get a dead call). My advice is dont answer, you have enough to deal with. It would be wrong to say that I know how you feel Kerri, I cant, but I had to move last year due to my sons disability and I was stressed because I didnt know where I would end up. I couldnt afford it all, hence the debt, I did it all on my own. I have never really cared for money, not with my childrens problems. I have had the worst year, realising the debt problem, losing my job, through stress, losing my mom. I do not want sympathy, I just want a chance to make this house a home and be a mom to my kids. I cannot afford to pay my creditors, I would sell a kidney to get them off my back, for a nights sleep a right leg I think.
I am not suprised you are off sick Kerri, change your number, go BR and start again, I am right there with you kiddo, routing for you every step of the way. Go and make yourself a cup of tea, sit down and tell yourself its all going to be ok, stressful but ok. You and Hubby stick together and love yourselves through this, give your kids a hug and get them to help you also, mine have been great. I have been honest with them, well as much as they understand anyway.
LILY