I always put my Scottish H M Forces cases through the High Court in London, on the basis that Scotland is not your permanent base, in which case I do not feel that the DMP was necessary. As a member of HM Forces, your husband can use the High Court for jurisdiction in any action he wishes to pursue.
I am afraid that I cannot tell you what to do - only you can decide this. If you feel that you have been appropriately advised, and that your IP is confident of success at the creditors meeting, you will be paying the same contribution regardless of how much the IP charges, so you do not benefit directly from this matter. It is down to the creditors to decide whether they are prepared to accept such high fees.
You say that it is imperitive that you have good communication with the company - what communication or direct advice have you had so far? Gauge whether this is a good measure to assess their performance, and if you feel that you have received good service then this should bode well for the future.
Also remember that as a service family (I was an Army wife for a number of years and served in the Territorials for 19 years) that your IP needs to understand that you will require a degree of flexibility into the future. Does your IVA proposal provide for this? Postings to Germany provide more income than postings to Bulford, but the cost of living is different and you do not pay things like road tax or TV licence. Similarly, if your husband is sent to the sandy countries overseas, what impact is that likely to have on your family budget? What discussions have you held with your IP in this regard.
It is never too late to pick up the phone and have a chat with them - if they can spare you the time!
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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