Do I understand that you have debts of approximately £76k and equity of at least £40k each? If so, your partner could afford to pay their debts in full, and you could then also pay yours as you would not have the joint debts to consider?
If this is the case, an IVA is not appropriate so direct offers of settlement to the creditors is probably a better way forward. If Payplan think that they can broker you a settlement at 80% I would stick with that - as a credible insolvency practitioner will have to show your creditors the true position and then it is questionable whether a short settlement is the right thing for them.
As a matter of interest why were you put into a DMP in the first place if you had this level of equity available? And how much are you going to be raising from the remortgage?
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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