Thank you Melanie/Andy for your replies.
I felt during and after the conversation with our IP that she was trying to put the frighteners on me a bit (it worked)and pointed out to me that they work on behalf of, not only us, but the creditors as well and have to seek the best for them.
I do understand this, but we are not unreasonable people, we chose an IVA over bankruptcy after considering both for a long time, because we felt better that we were going to pay at least something back to other businesses, like ourselves, as opposed to a quick get out with bankruptcy, we had next to no equity in our house and didn't stand to loose a lot through bankruptcy, but decided against it.
I think it is because of this, we feel a little miffed, that we are only trying to 'get on' in life by opting to sell what was suppose to be our nest egg, only to be told 'quite bluntly' that we may have the door slammed in our face.
I didnt feel our IP was very supportive compared to some of the posts I have read on here, and I'm wondering how much of it is the scare tactics and how much is genuine.
I have just read another thread on here, where someone wanted to sell their house to pay F&F, the equity left was about £71k, the debt was £36k and he was offering £20k, this is a similar situation to ours, although I dont know the outcome of that one.
I suppose the only way to find out is to offer the £43,708 and wait for the response.
Thanks again, will let everyone know the outcome in case anyone else finds themself in this situation.
Regards
Tracie
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