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Post by quark2008 » Wed Nov 16, 2011 2:59 pm
I'm still alive.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:03 pm
Quark, how nice to see you.

How,are you?
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Post by quark2008 » Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:12 pm
Terrified.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:14 pm
Why?
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Post by quark2008 » Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:21 pm
Surgery, yes or no.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:26 pm
You have to weigh everything up. What will happen if you don't have it?
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The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
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Post by quark2008 » Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:38 pm
I'm not gonna see my 40th. But there is quite a significant risk of cognitive impairment. Spoken, online to a lot of people who have had had the same surgery. They feel physically fantastic, but very forgetful, and depressed. It's due to being on the by pass machine for longer than is usual. I always knew this, and I'm already quite an uppety person.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:43 pm
Only you can make the decision but it it were me and it was going to make me feel well.and prolong ny life then I'd be going for it.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
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Post by kallis3 » Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:58 pm
You can always treat depression. Forgetfulness can be dealt with as well. What do.your family think?
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley.
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Post by Shining » Wed Nov 16, 2011 6:47 pm
Tough time Quark, tough decision, only you can make this one with the support of your family and friends you'll make the right choice I'm sure. xx
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Post by plasticdaft » Thu Nov 17, 2011 9:50 am
Tough one but do you really have a choice?? If its the end of the road or surgery followed by a pot holed dirt track give me the dirt track every time!!!

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Post by Skippy » Thu Nov 17, 2011 9:55 am
I've only just caught up with the Quark. It's such a difficult decision but I think if it was me I'd do anything for a longer life x
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