An IVA wont take your home off you

A standard condition is that In the 5th year, you are generally expected to attempt to release any available equity in the property to pay into the property. If this isn't possible (due to not being able to remortgage etc) then your IVA may be extended by another period (commonly 12 months).
I don't know how this works when the house is jointly owned and one partner is not in an IVA - in my case, we are both in an IVA but the house is only in his name so I have been advised that my IVA will run the 5 year term, whereas he is expected to try to release any equity in the property into his IVA.
I hope that makes sense?!
For me, the IVA was the best option - I had 2 young children too, and ended up having a breakdown and being diagnosed with depression. It is so nice to know it is now all under control and that there is an end in sight
Also, when your IVA is accepted, your debts should be marked as defaulted. This remains on your credit report for 6 years - so usually a year after your IVA finishes. After that, you can start to rebuild your credit score, but it will have a lasting impact.