For those who have been posting nearly as long as I have may remember that when I was in my own IVA, many years ago, my dear father in law often helped me out financially.
He sadly passed away today
I had the pleasure of him living with myself and Bev over the last two years, he was a truly lovely guy
The reason for my post ? well we need to always remember that debt is just a number, deal with it the best you can but don't let it take over your life.
I totally and utterly agree with you Andy, I am so sorry to hear about your father in law, he sounds like he was a very special man.
Money is nothing in the grand scheme of things, losing my own mum 5 years ago made me realise how material things mean nothing, and really was the reason behind us going into the iva, to have a future free of debt so we can enjoy life instead of paying debt off forever.
I couldn't care less what we have, where we live as long as I have my family, my kids and we are together and healthy, that's all I care about, the rest will sort itself out
I am so dreadfully sorry to hear your sad news Andy.
I know how important this gentleman was to you, Bev and the kids, and how happy you had all been over the last couple of years. Tony and my thoughts are with you all, and please give Bev a very special hug from us both. You are very much in our thoughts tonight. God bless xx
