Thank you very much Melanie for your advice and Helen for your lovely thoughts.
Melanie: I am a little scepctical about talking to my IP as I have always had the feeling they are actually more on the side of the creditors (or their own side sometimes -given they get quite a lot of the money I pay monthly-).
So, would it be wise to mention the fact that I'd like to settle due to wanting to buy a property in the future? - will this perhaps raise more questions? - I do not have the money right now at all, but I would like to use the next year or so to start building up some sort of deposit while my IVA clears from my credit record (I think?)
Obviously, whatever I offer them as an early settlement will be dependant on what my partner agrees to lend me (I will no pay interest back) but I am a little hesitant to go beyond the £5K mark. I have been struggling with the repayments but I have not missed them although it meant I sometimes had to be extremely frugal with my life.
Thanks so much for your help again
