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Post by cazlizzy » Mon May 04, 2009 10:33 pm
Glad you are feeling a bit more in control hun....it will be ups and downs I guess, but enjoy the ups...and we'll drag you through the downs [:D]
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Post by David Mond » Tue May 05, 2009 6:28 am
That is positive IDA - keep up the good work.
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Post by Max » Tue May 05, 2009 9:56 am
Sorry for being late in asking - but how are you today Ida?
 
 

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Post by Ida Clare » Tue May 05, 2009 4:16 pm
I had an email, our next payment is suspended and our IP has our file.
 
 

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Post by Max » Tue May 05, 2009 4:18 pm
Good - that is one thing semi out of the way> Keep you chin up!
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Tue May 05, 2009 4:28 pm
Remember we are here whenever you need us!
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Post by Ida Clare » Tue May 05, 2009 4:49 pm
Thank you all, from the bottom of my heart,

The lady did ring here today, we were at the hospital, nothing too big, bloods bloods bloods.

She emailed then to say it was suspended and the IP has our file for his advice.

I so hope they will settle it now, it's not much of a glimmer but I am just hoping it's one less terror.
 
 

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Post by Skippy » Tue May 05, 2009 4:53 pm
Good luck, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you xxx
 
 

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Post by ivas4us » Tue May 05, 2009 4:53 pm
It is certainly a step in the right direction Ida. Just as a thought make sure you stop the standing order as another poster recently had the money taken on a payment break. We are always here for you. look after yourself and the family.
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Post by kallis3 » Tue May 05, 2009 5:06 pm
Fingers crossed for you.

I hope they see sense and get your IVA sorted soon so you can concentrate on the real priorities.
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Post by debtmountain » Tue May 05, 2009 5:07 pm
Hi Ida,..I've only just caught up with your post as not been on the forum for a couple of weeks , but just wanted to say how sorry I am to hear about your husband, I can understand what you're going through at the moment having had a member of my family who was diagnosed with the same cancer (gullet/oesophagus)...My thoughts are with you all and I'm glad to hear that you have managed to get in contact with your IP today..Just remember like the others have said, we're all here for you to offer as much help and support that we can, so please keep posting, and take care of yourselves....xx
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Post by sparklywatcher » Tue May 05, 2009 6:04 pm
Hi Ida, glad you have managed to get some sleep, taking action will help you feel a bit better. Glad things are slowly easing. Still thinking of you xx
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Post by Ida Clare » Thu May 07, 2009 6:55 am
Thank you all.

I had a hideous day yesterday, I don't know why yesterday was so bad, it just was.

Better today.

I think when we know more from the doctors and the IVA issue I can grasp something tangible to do, to get on with.

That seems to be the key filling my mind with doing something useful.

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Post by janjan » Thu May 07, 2009 7:59 am
Hi Ida

I am quite new to this forum and have been following your thread and would just like to add my support along with everybody else.

Glad you are feeling better today. I think it is understandable that you are up and down and agree once you have answers you will be able to deal with the hurdles that life sends us.

Stay strong and positive

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Post by jes2710 » Thu May 07, 2009 9:49 am
Hi Ida

I've been following your thread. I am very sorry that you and your family are really going through the wringer!! I wanted to add that my thoughts are with you and your family.

My dad was diagnosed with cancer in his oesophagus a few years ago, so much so that he couldn't eat anything as nothing would go past it, much the same as your husband. Dad had chemo to shrink the cancer, then an operation and then radiotherapy. He has made a full recovery and apart from not being able to eat as much as he used to, he is absolutely fine. The doctors and nurses at St James's Hospital in Leeds were fantastic and he was looked after from start to finish and surprisingly quickly and efficiently.

I had tears in my eyes reading your thread. God only knows how stressed out you are what with your husband's diagnosis AND IVA's to cope with. I just wanted to add my support - you must be massively strong to find the presence of mind to even type!!!!

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