No youre not, dont think that. I was exactly the same. I asked Lloyds for a debit card on the phone and they asked me into the branch, so I went in and explained that with the cashcard its so difficult to get my money and live, plus I was mugged outside the branch once, not seriously but I was scared to stand there. They refused and made me feel terrible, I walked out of the branch feeling so worthless, I sat on the bench, thinking how did I come to be so desperate??? This elderly man spoke to me and I just burst into tears in the middle of my little town, felt so stupid, but this debt thing takes everything away from you, I dont mean money but your worth, self esteem, what used to make you tick. You jump when the phone rings, panic when you see a strange car coming into your close, if anyone knocks your door, youre jelly. It takes time to adjust.
I digress, the coop referred mine too, but I got a letter of acceptance around 10 days later.
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