Please help me, I have spent today in tears trying to make sense of what we should do. Basic scenario, live with partner, in rented accom, having sold house a couple of years ago cos couldn't afford the mortgage any more (having remortgaged to try to pay debts etc, you get the picture). Minimal equity which was soon swallowed up on credit cards etc. I have debts of £54k, partner £15k. Both work full time and have good professional jobs (which makes me feel such a failure that I am in this situation at all). We are with CCCS, seems to have been going on for months. Now proposing an IVA for me, and DMP for partner. But the amount they want just keeps going up and up. They actually recommended BR in the first place for me, but I did feel that (a) I wanted to avoid the stigma (is there still stigma to BR?) and (b) I did feel that I wanted to repay some of the debts. However I now feel I am being pushed into a corner. They want £482 for SIX years on the IVA, plus about £120 for partner on DMP, so total of about £600 a month, and I really don't feel we can do that for the next 6 years.
Finally received proposal from CCCS yesterday with these figures. It does say on there that if I went BR then the amount I would have to pay for 3 years would only be about £300 a month. is this right and why is the amount of an income attachment thing in BR less than the amount I have to pay in an IVA? How is it calculated differently?
I just feel now that BR would be the better option. Seeing the figures in black and white it seems why should I pay £482 for six years when I could pay £300 for 3 years. Why do the IVAs want to squeeze every last penny, when the creditors get virtually nothing on a BR? Five years seemed achievable, but because they say some of our outgoings (mostly life insurance and pensions , which are through work and I can't alter it) are more than should be allowed, we would need to pay an extra year. It's just too much.
Can anyone tell me, is it that bad going BR? Is it right that the income payment would be so much lower? I really need help, it's taken so long to get this far, my creditors are getting stroppy, and I just want it all sorted.
sorry to go on and on, but other questions that I would so appreciate answers to are re bank account. We already have a basic account with Nationwide, in joint names, just basic cash card account. What would happen if I go BR? Would they freeze it or anything? How long for? Is it better to tell them before hand? I can't risk utilities, and particularly our rent, not being paid etc, more problems with money would push me over the edge.
Also, would my employer need to know? I don't think it would worry them but I don't want my colleagues all to know if poss. Somewhere I read something about your tax code changes in BR.
Please can someone help me with all this.
thank you
ALI