font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica">quote:<hr height="1" noshade>Originally posted by TotalMoron
I wish i could figure out where it's all gone.
The secret is to look forward.... NOT back... you can um... and ah... as to where it all went wrong, but that won't move you forward.
By the way Welcome to the forum.
Take heart that you are not the first and certainly will not be last to end up in your situation. The fact is you have agreed to do something about it. Glad you have managed to talk to your parents as they may be able to support you along the way (I dont' mean financially, but as a sounding board) alongside the members of this forum.
Now is the time to start working out what you actually do spend, keep receipts for fuel, shopping, etc.. along with any other things you spend your money on. You will need to factor in all your expenses, including dental treatment, hair cuts, opticians and prescriptions should you be on regular medication. These are all allowances that you can have along with a mobile phone and sky packages, although you will only be allowed the basic packages on these, anything over this comes of your additional allowances. Try and have as much of this information ready and to hand for your telephone conversation tomorrow. Keep in touch with the forum and never be afraid to ask a question no matter how trivial you think it may sound. Good luck for tomorrow and let us know how you get on.