Great stuff Ruby ... you are really making some progress now [:)]
It was interesting to hear what you say about your husband's response Ruby.
Having been single for many years I have dealt with my debt on my own. Today, romantically at the crematorium, a very nice charismatic Funeral Director made a bit of a pass at me ... I think!!! (it all happens at the crematorium let me tell you!!). It was a all a bit novel and took me a while to realise what was happening ... and then I found myself closing down as I know that until I get my debt situation sorted out I am not a viable option for a relationship. Reflecting on this driving home it made me realise that I have probably put up the drawbridge for a number of years in terms of relationships and it brought it home to me just what "price" I have paid, not just financial, in terms of my debt situation.
I know I am rambling here and don't really quite know what I'm trying to say ... but wondered whether anyone had any thoughts?
Debbie
www.familyceremonies.co.uk
www.soulgrowth.co.uk