Hi fionaj
It is strange that you are having these thoughts now and not prior to entering into your IVA. Did your IP give you advice on all options, and if so what was it that made you decide upon an IVA.
I estimate that 80% of my clients would be "better off" going bankrupt, but the fact is that most of them would prefer not to due to stigma, publicity and the fact that most people genuinely do feel a responsibility to repay their debts.
There will be no problem in you and your boyfriend taking out a joint mortgage, so long as he pays the deposit, but you will need to seek your IP's permission which ought to be granted so long as your new mortgage payments are no more than you are paying in rent - or do not disturb your ability to fund your IVA contributions.
Don't worry about asking questions on the forum. That is exactly what it is there for!!
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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http://www.melaniegiles.com and view my IVA blog at:
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