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Ida Clare

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Post by Ida Clare » Thu May 14, 2009 10:22 pm
THAMK YOU ALL SO MUCH.

You know that first night, the diagnosis, the "it" night, I probably posted here early hours of saturday morning, once he had nodded off? The Friday afternoon of the diagnosis and the rest of the weekend just all merge into each other. I didn't slep, still don't, well, cat nap no problem to drop off, an hour or so and I am up again, same for him except it's the pain wakes him and he now has morphine and some diluted version of it to take to keep the pain at bay, it's been upped today.

YOU ALL DID KEEP ME GOING and it was not just the IVA, and I have to thank you all.

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Post by Julie » Thu May 14, 2009 10:34 pm
Ida - only wish there was more we could do. You are sounding so much stronger and I admire you.

Hopefully David will be able to sort out the IVA with payplan, so it will be one less thing for you to worry about.

Try and keep your spririts up, you're doing great [;)]xx
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Thu May 14, 2009 10:37 pm
Ida I am glad that you have some answers and that things are moving forward.

I too wish there was more we could do to help you.
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Post by poppyfairy » Thu May 14, 2009 10:39 pm
Ida we are all with you every step of the way. I know I am not an expert on much but my thoughts and prayers are with you hun.
You are doing amazingly x
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Post by David Mond » Fri May 15, 2009 6:34 am
Ida - have sent a message to Payplan and I am sure someone will be in touch this morning.

Keep your spirits up.
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Post by Kazz » Fri May 15, 2009 10:06 am
Hi Ida
Its Karen, I work for Payplan and am keen to find a resolution to the situation.
Can you tell me who your case officer is so that I can locate you.
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Post by Ida Clare » Fri May 15, 2009 4:39 pm
Thank you all, my advisor emailed me today, my IP has told her to put a proposal for full and final payment to our creditors. She was lovely. Her name is Sarah, do you need the surname Karen?

THANK YOU KAREN..
THANK YOU David.

Thank you all!

Just hope that the creditors will accept it, there must be a considerable amount there now.

THANK YOU ALL AGAIN!
 
 

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Post by ivas4us » Fri May 15, 2009 4:47 pm
Great to hear you sounding a lot more positive and hopefully everything will all turn out really good. We are all here for you and I just wish we could do more.
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Post by nursecrippin » Fri May 15, 2009 4:51 pm
Im pleased for you Ida that will be one worry off your mind. Take care hun and if your ever worried type here im on night shift tonight and if im not busy i will try and reply...even if its just a chat you want
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Post by Ida Clare » Fri May 15, 2009 4:56 pm
Thank you both so much, I am just so grateful.

Do you think the creditors will accept it? I mean there honestly isn't any way I can continue to pay, I don't have it.
 
 

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Post by nursecrippin » Fri May 15, 2009 4:59 pm
I cant answer that one but they would be stupid not to in your situation. i will keep everything crossed for you hun. I work with head and neck cancer so i know how stressfull things can get. you know where i am
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Post by ivas4us » Fri May 15, 2009 5:00 pm
I really hope so Ida.
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Post by Ida Clare » Fri May 15, 2009 5:18 pm
IVAs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


Heidi, this tumour is hiugher than we thought it was (not sure why we thought it was lower, general area of the pain, I suppose) but it's at 32 cms. Does that come under your area?
 
 

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Post by Julie » Fri May 15, 2009 5:33 pm
Crossing my fingers and everything else that your F&F is accepted Ida.

How are you coping with the children? xx
 
 

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Post by Ida Clare » Fri May 15, 2009 5:41 pm
Thank you Julie, so am I now, I mean I was worried before, terrified now!

The kids are fine, the youngest has been whisked away by a friend with a caravan, the boys didn't want to go.

They don't know anything yet.
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