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Ida Clare

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Post by Ida Clare » Sat May 02, 2009 9:44 am
Thank you, Kallis xx
 
 

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Post by cazlizzy » Sat May 02, 2009 9:47 am
Hi Ida, so so sorry about your Husbands diagnosis.
As others have said, they can do so much nowadays, but that doesn't stop the worry and stress. Your husband and your family are your priority now, I am sure something can be worked out about the money, try not to worry too much. Talk to your IP and then just focus on your family.
My thoughts are with you and please come and scream here if you need to and keep us updated.
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Post by ivahunter » Sat May 02, 2009 9:48 am
I'm so sorry to hear of your news.
I hope your iva can come to an end, as you'll need all your energy to support you husband. I wish you all the best and hope he gets better soon.

Keep us updated.
 
 

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Post by Ida Clare » Sat May 02, 2009 9:55 am
Heartfelt thanks to all of you.

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Post by Pap » Sat May 02, 2009 10:04 am
Hi Ida

I've only just read this and can't really say much that hasn't already been said but I'm sure your creditors will see sense and end your arrangement early.
Your priority right now is your husband and family and I really hope they sort the iva quickly for you,
I wish you well for the future and my thoughts are with you all.

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Post by ivas4us » Sat May 02, 2009 10:52 am
Ida, I am really sorry to hear about your husbands illness and wish him a full recovery. Hopefully as David has advised the IVA can be concluded and leave you to focus on your family.


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Post by MelanieGiles » Sat May 02, 2009 11:42 am
I am also so sorry to hear your news - and nothing said at the moment is likely to help you in the short-term, but you sound like a strong lady and must remain positive for your hubby.

I just want to confirm David's advice, and to let you know that I have just successfully concluded an IVA for clients of mine in very similar circumstances, and they had only paid in for three years, so I am sure that you will get the settlement you are looking for.

God bless to you all.
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Post by Ida Clare » Sat May 02, 2009 2:03 pm
Thank you Melanie. Very much .

I was concerend this morning because I wanted to know if they would want all sorts of paperwork, they have all the stuff they ask for over the year but I have spent some time looking for stuff, and I can't find anything they might want.

David said they peobably would only need the medical confirmation, was that the case with your couple please Melanie?
 
 

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Post by MelanieGiles » Sat May 02, 2009 2:09 pm
To be frank I simply trusted that what they were telling me was correct. I could not imagine that anyone would be untruthful about such a horrible experience, and I know all of my clients quite well so I did not actually ask for any evidence. Your firm may take a different view, but if they need the confirmation I am sure it will not be too much trouble to provide it.
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Post by Ida Clare » Sat May 02, 2009 2:17 pm
The medical things, doctors etc Melanie I can get, well I assume I can, I was thinking more of financial papers, payslips I might be able to find here, I don't know what else they might want, it's the financial paperwork I am concerned about.
 
 

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Post by MelanieGiles » Sat May 02, 2009 2:58 pm
I think that they will need an updated income and expenditure account, and details of your wage-slips for the last three months.
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Post by Ida Clare » Sat May 02, 2009 3:32 pm
That I can do, thank you Melanie, very much. xx
 
 

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Post by Max » Sat May 02, 2009 3:45 pm
I am very sorry to learn of the medical problems - medicine has advanced so much in that field that wonders are often done. Drugs which were only available on a private basis which cost an absolute fortune a few years ago are now on the NHS. I wish you all the very best.
 
 

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Post by Ida Clare » Sat May 02, 2009 3:57 pm
Thank you elv5.

My mind isn't even around it yet.

He's been ill for more than a year and yesterday afternoon he got the diagnosis.

It's not even begun to sink in yet.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Sat May 02, 2009 3:59 pm
My thoughts are with you Ida - fingers crossed that they can do something for him.

What an awful time you are having.
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