Hi Ida, so so sorry about your Husbands diagnosis.
As others have said, they can do so much nowadays, but that doesn't stop the worry and stress. Your husband and your family are your priority now, I am sure something can be worked out about the money, try not to worry too much. Talk to your IP and then just focus on your family.
My thoughts are with you and please come and scream here if you need to and keep us updated.
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I'm so sorry to hear of your news.
I hope your iva can come to an end, as you'll need all your energy to support you husband. I wish you all the best and hope he gets better soon.
I've only just read this and can't really say much that hasn't already been said but I'm sure your creditors will see sense and end your arrangement early.
Your priority right now is your husband and family and I really hope they sort the iva quickly for you,
I wish you well for the future and my thoughts are with you all.
Ida, I am really sorry to hear about your husbands illness and wish him a full recovery. Hopefully as David has advised the IVA can be concluded and leave you to focus on your family.
Best wishes.
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I am also so sorry to hear your news - and nothing said at the moment is likely to help you in the short-term, but you sound like a strong lady and must remain positive for your hubby.
I just want to confirm David's advice, and to let you know that I have just successfully concluded an IVA for clients of mine in very similar circumstances, and they had only paid in for three years, so I am sure that you will get the settlement you are looking for.
I was concerend this morning because I wanted to know if they would want all sorts of paperwork, they have all the stuff they ask for over the year but I have spent some time looking for stuff, and I can't find anything they might want.
David said they peobably would only need the medical confirmation, was that the case with your couple please Melanie?
To be frank I simply trusted that what they were telling me was correct. I could not imagine that anyone would be untruthful about such a horrible experience, and I know all of my clients quite well so I did not actually ask for any evidence. Your firm may take a different view, but if they need the confirmation I am sure it will not be too much trouble to provide it.
The medical things, doctors etc Melanie I can get, well I assume I can, I was thinking more of financial papers, payslips I might be able to find here, I don't know what else they might want, it's the financial paperwork I am concerned about.
I am very sorry to learn of the medical problems - medicine has advanced so much in that field that wonders are often done. Drugs which were only available on a private basis which cost an absolute fortune a few years ago are now on the NHS. I wish you all the very best.
My thoughts are with you Ida - fingers crossed that they can do something for him.
What an awful time you are having.
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