hi lily- you probably dont remember me but i wont forget you, you helped me through some bad times, i was doing car boot sales, selling on ebay- took in a lodger, i was just keeping my head above water to stay in my house, you were so nice to me, just want you to know im doing ok now-- thanks xxx

in west yorkshire at the moment you can rent a 3 bed house with private parking for 3 cars, amazing hill top views for £475 a month-

merry xmas to everyone from me too- hope 2009 is a better year for us all xxxx

thanks skippy- im living life in a bubble! which will be popped soon and then i will need mates like you xxxx just hope you will be there for me

hi kallis, thanks for replying, your right if my job goes iv had it and also if my lodger goes, shes great lives here with me and 2 noisy but lovable kids, i dont want to end up with an iva or bankrupcy, im trying so hard hard to keep afloat, i think she knows my situation but hasnt mentioned it re-...

thanks skippy, thanks for replying and for for being there , i know your giving me good advice, i can manage a bit longer yet xxxx thanks

i cant im scared, god that sounds stupid, but i cant

hi melanie- i read your posts and they are so helpful, skippy, ive read your blog, and your posts, your always so kind to people, i know you"v been through it. im okay though, i can get through this, as long as i keep my job and my lodger, thanks for replying xxx

davram i feel like that every day- every morning, i dread the postman coming, im not in a iva, but i have a lot of debt, i read a post melanie giles wrote advising about taking a lodger in and i have a lodger here who works shifts, so its working out ok ish! i dont like sharing my house but i have n...

appearance is important-sometimes you feel thats all youve got left- i used to pay £70 for full head highlights and a good cut, felt great after, went to a cheaper place cost £40 but no one noticed ide had anything done

lily that was a really good post- very helpful, very long- but very good

ive been growing veg in pots- my first attempt. Ive got about 60 green tomatoes ranging from big to like cherry size ,they just wont go red! some turnips that i had a peek at are about as big as marbles, caulies that are just masses of leaves, and pea pods that have just got white and black ish flow...

lol- my dad used to say "ive had this sweeping brush for 40 years, been great value-ok its had a few new handles and iv had to get 2 new heads but its lasted

when i was young= one would cut the other would choose, i was the youngest of 6 i was lucky if i got a few crumbs lol

hi lily, thanks for replying- my "lodger" has moved in now and touch wood- everythings going fine, i hardly see her and she cleans up after herself. I had to tell her i was in a bit of a financial mess after she answered a few of my phone calls, and shes seen my red letters through the post, but tod...