WOW! thanx martin and emma...i have been feeling such a ...well you know....and yep your right i do feel a little better knowing that the debt with my dad can only get smaller now...i still cant believe how fantastically supportive he has been..i would NEVER have expected him to pay the debt and THA...

Thanx for listenig guys and thanx for your support..i hope i can get this mess sorted too...good luck chris..i hope it all goes well.
maxine

hiya...well i have been talking to my day earlier today...all very emotional ..but he was amazing!!!! hes not happy but was very understanding...he was more annoyed that i hadnt been returning his calls, but that was because i wanted to be able to go to him with the problem sorted. HE has paid the d...

its 3 of my 4 childrens birthdays coming up in march too..one is going to be 16 the other 18 and the little one 4yrs old....what am i going to do..i dont want to let them down too..i just want to curl up and die to be honest

i have been talking to the CCCS and they are trying to help me with a budgeting plan but i just feel everything is spiralliing out of controll..i cant even bring myself to speak to my dad as i am so very upset and embarrassed....i have always done my best to pay my way and anything i owe..this is ju...

Hi Andy, yes i probably could manage to pay the £9000 repayment IF i didnt pay my dads credit card but it would still take about 5yrs to clear!!!! What about my dads card? the interest and charges on it for none payment over 5 yrs would be incredible. What were you going to suggest?
maxine

heya, the card IS in my dads name...we were trying for a loan ourselves for home improvements and holiday and were advised that the loan had been approved, so we committed our selves with deposits we couldnt really afford but thought we could recoupe when the loan came in..needless to say the loan c...

my partner and i have been paying a consolidation company and have a debt of aprox 9500 that they are currently dealing with. we also took out a loan on my dad credit card a couple of years ago and owe aprox 5000 even tho we only borrowed 6000 and have paid 3500 to the card...550 of which was paid i...