I thank you all for your kind comments and words of advice. I am encouraged that so many individuals here hear what I am saying and react so positively. You have no idea what it means just for you right now to be taking the time to read this. My plight is very real, me and my wife fantasise regularl...

Thanks I have not tried to speak to the inspector at the station yet, are they approachable enough i dont want to wast police time. My wife is becoming increasingly depressed by it all I am worried she may do something again. Christmas is not going to be very good for the three kids either. I wish I...

I just thought Id keep you all updated. The harassment continues. Again we are told just to write stuff down that happens. I have written to my accountants advising them that I may seek legal help to sort out the creditor that is harassing me and they agreed to write again to them. They have said th...

again thank you all for your input here i feel like in a way some of the weight has been lifted. I think it is knowing that its not just me in this situation and that has made a difference. Thank you Rainbow for that website I will research that further and will also look into the possibility of bei...

I have no relatives that will help me, and some are really well off. I would not tell them either. We are not that kind of family I have not told any of my family they would not understand i know they wouldn't. I will just have to wait, and see what time does, the great healer eh, its been so long s...

Thanks for all of your advice. I am ashamed of my situation. I done this to my kids, and wife and now i live in fear, We keep a diary as advised by the asbo team and police but here in scotland it seems that there is little that can be done, one of my kids or myself and wife will have to be assaulte...

I am so glad I have found this site to vent my frustration can anyone please help me I am close to the presapace, on the very edge of my sanity and i need your advice. I made the terrible mistake of accepting a loan from friends when we were in a bad situation. I reluctantly agreed. I thought at the...