thanks mel the info was good, and no bankruptcy isn't an opption that we would take, beans on toast is much sweeter,we love our little house, i could not imagine having losing it. we never had any arrears on mortgage or credit cards, so never ever had a bad credit score, we always managed to pay everything, but it got to the stage where we were living from the cards.
this weekend i'm going to do my in/ex and send them reciepts and such like, but we are going to send our mthly payment minus my car tax, and offer that they take it back over the next two payments, otherwise we will struggle for food for another mth, as they will not allow any payment break, i feel the offer we are making is very fair, and feel very annoyed that they will not help us,we are too scared to miss a whole payment.
we are doing well but the strain is showing on my husband, and he has realy grumpy outbursts, with the wind bringing three fences down and he is going threw giving up cigs, its his 8th wk,i cant blame him, i'm so proud of him, but i can't even afford to treat him to the pics or anything, but we are trying so hard to stay positive. and no that with the help of this site we will bounce back.
we have plans to live on £60 for food for the first 3mth of the new yr, so we can get some money behind us, for the next car tax etc.
And we are thinking of selling our playstation 3, to get a present for our daughters and son, and granddaughter, it will also give us some nice food for the festive period, as i have pulled out of selling my grandmothers ring, its just too precious, i sincerely thankyou all that answer my posts, it gives me strenght to get through the bad times. i will keep you informed from any developments with my IP.
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moneypenny on Thu Nov 19, 2009 11:27 pm, edited 1 time in total.
light at the end of the tunnel