I can only echo the posts above... if at all possible heed the advice given by Bradders. I can't even try to imagine what you are going through.... my thoughts are with you at this sad and traumatic time.
so sorry to hear of your devastating loss, I shouldn't worry about the debt right now, i am sure there are more pressing issues. take time, then maybe in a few weeks or months when your ready, you can face any debt problems you may be left with.
one thing for sure we are not going anywhere, so whether its next week or this time next year we will still be here for support x
kat
IVA accepted 6th May 2011, Full and Final accepted 17th April 2012.
Sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you too (((hug's))) x
life never seems to be the way we want it to be, but we live it the best we can . there is no perfect life but we can fill it with perfects moments.....
The thing I love about this forum is the way it rallies round. Devastated for you but hopefully this forum will give you some support and stop you worrying about the financial side