Meeting planned for 29th and a few questions

[Reviva UK]

Hi t bird

had you thought about speaking to Melanie to discus your options. I read that you have a meeting with an IP arranged but surely it is worth carrying on a conversation with Melanie as she knows so much about your situation already and you obviously can see the level of resepct she holds on the site by her clients.

It is a huge decision to choose an IP so don't risk someone on face value.

[MelanieGiles]

Not ominous at all! Just explaining that there may be more than one option which is worthy of consideration - but at the end of the day your hubby needs to accept that he needs help as this is the first stage to being helped!

[t_bird]

Thanks Melanie. He's a typical ostrich, God only knows what would have happened if i hadnt tackled him about it when i did. feeling better and looking at other IPs now as well to try to get things moving and get as much input as we can as to what our options are.

This site realy is a life line...thanks everyone

[facingittogether]

hi t bird just wanted to say welcome!

like others have said get advice from a couple of ip s to see what your options are. we had massive debts of 160 thousand and were drowning but after speaking to melanie and her team things have been sorted and our lives are back on track!

i wish you the best of luck

love barb x

[angela18]

yes good luck in any option you take.. we have an IVA with Melanie and I must say I couldn't fault her advise and her team.. they are great