Marie!

[Viki.W]

NOOOOOOOOOO! I can't talk about me.....that's all I do![:0]

My story is boring and full of whinging, moaning, whining, sobbing!!!

I'm gutted really, panicked, phoned Melanie's office to get a bit of reassurance that this would be acceptable. Embarrassingly sobbed to Angela![B)] I suppose it could have sold for 100K and I still wouldn't have seen a penny but I just feel guilty that creditors won't get much back, and will they accept such a low offer?[?]

CRIKEY!!!!! I'm too worried, I need to just go with the flow and wait and see. My only other option if bankruptcy.....don't really want that[:(]

Back to you, how horrible, I can't stand people like that....you should start some juicy rumour about her....you know....like she's really a man or something![:D]

You cope well with everything hun, I admire you. I've been lucky to not have to put up with any of that but I suppose when I get a job, I've got all that to come.[:0][:(!]

You're doing well.......stop biting your lip though, it'll hurt!

Viki X

[Moneystinks]

Viki, what are we going to do with you eh!

You are allowed to moan and whine you know you are human and I won't like you any less. I read the forum, all of it, but have got lazy I am ashamed to say and don't always post, also I am usually getting asked a million questions or answering a million - Little T watches far too much news and then expects me to answer his questions lol!

Anyway, I know you are really worried and stressed and I know that you are finding all this really difficult. You are 'normal'. Yes I did just say you were normal.......[;)]

I only appear to keep it together, I didn't feel very together when I was sat in the bath the other night crying my eyes out like a baby[:I]
I'm sure I am going to ave many more tears, I need to speak with Melanie when she get back, that will be intersting for her Ican tell you.

Never apologise for having a bad day! (pot and kettle[:I]).

Angela will be used to people crying, blubbing and not being able to speak - she should be I have rang her often enough hee hee.[;)]

We might end up crossing the 'new beginning' line together [:D]

XX

[Viki.W]

Ah Marie, you are such a wonderful person. You know what to say to make me feel better. I've been kicked off so on iPod, that's why this message is short. If you're still awake, which I doubt you will be, in half an hour, I'll be back.....otherwise talk tomorrow. Love ya! X

[Moneystinks]

Thank god you replied I thought I had well upset you. shout at hubby and tell him he is a very naughty boy![:D]

I am going to bed shortly so will probably catch you tomorrow.

Try and plod throught he next few days and remember you are nearly there. Beans on toast said it all when he mentioned regrets - he was bang on the money - not pun intended. You tried and took a chance and it didn't quite pan out. Better than not trying at all.

Have a nice sleep and a good day tomorrow. XX

[Viki.W]

It takes forever to post on that contraption thingy!!!

I'm back, I gave hubby the old puppy dog eyes and he has now retired to the lounge!!!! Comes in handy eh?

You could never upset me, you do make me cry though....usually in laughter cos you're so funny, or cos you post lovely things like before.

Everyone makes sense and I know too......I'll be fine, jobless, but fine!!!!!

Are you asleep now? Viki X

[Moneystinks]

Not quite I knew you would work your charm on hubby! We ave the knack - watch out Stephen hee hee. X

We have lods of positions at the mo forcewide for CDO' reasonable good shift allowance etc, etc. Thee were quite a few jobs re councelling (doesn't look to be spelt right but just took contacts out so can't really see properly).

Anyway, you will be able to plan for getting a job when you have spoken to Melanie, ask her about jobs etc and her opinion on when might be a good time. I have ran allsorts by her and if she cannot answer she tells you - don't get if you don't ask lol. XX

What do you think hubby might do? More to the point all joking aside what do you fancy doing?

[Viki.W]

Me - housewife[:X] or chocolate taster[:p]

Hubby - professional assassin[8D][:(!] or billionaire[^]

Seriously, I want to be a debt councellor(i don't know how to spell it either!) and hubby wants to be a car salesman so he can get a sports car for free!

I don't even know how to write a CV.

What's your job hun? Viki X

[Moneystinks]

I have been 'around' [;)] no seriously I have done all kinds of jobs since leaving erm..... home tuition.

Currently I work in the Human Resources Department. Interesting, oh yes! If you need help with your CV drop me an e mail with your details and I will do it and mail it back to you - not a problem same with application forms - I have my uses.

Most applications require you to follow a criteria, you can 'tailor' your responses to match most criterias without putting a lot of spin on them.

I'm serious though drop me an e mail and I will help you both.

[Viki.W]

Ah Marie, that would be great, but you're so busy, I wouldn't want to impose. I know how hard things are for you at the moment both in work and with all this IVA stuff. I wouldn't want you to think I was a pain.....you have lots on your plate.

Aren't you a little angel to offer.[:X] Viki X

[Moneystinks]

I wouldn't have offered if I didn't want to help you. The offer is there and genuine.

If I thought you were becoming a pain I would let you know you can count on that [;)].

Right I'm going to have to love you and leave you for tonight a I need to get up in the AM. Reubbish I know. I hate going to bed because I HAVE to. Never mind it's nearly my weekend!

Try and stay calm and get through the next few days. I will look in on you tomorrow. Don't worry so much about me thinking bad of you. I don't hol grudges or fall out. I say my piece and then move forward - Life is way too short to drag things on.

I feel very lucky to have found you on this site and I worry about you You need to look fter your own feelings for a while until you get through this little patch of rubbishness (not even a word!).

Love you too by the way speak tomorrow XX

Night night hun [:X][:)][:D][8D][:o)][|)]

[Viki.W]

Ah thanks Marie, I will take you up on your kind offer. We'll sort it out with Admin over the weekend. We'll have to meet up now you're going to be my PA....officially!!!! Should have met up ages ago but you know how things are.

Night night hun, [8)][8]

Viki X

[animaleyes76]

Nightmare! I missed you both again by MINUTES

[Viki.W]

Hey Marie, how's your weekend going? It's gorgeous isn't it.[8D]

I'll try and catch you later hun. Viki X

[Moneystinks]

Hello, hello, hello


Well, where to start......I lef work on Friday and thought sod it, Little T at camp all weekend so I'm gonna get leathered![}:)][:p]

I went to my friends new 7 bedroom house which is gorgeous but needs a lot doing. Went back to her current/old house - yes she has still got the other one[:0] More money than sense - anyway, I got leathered. Everything was going fine and then at around 0330hrs she decided to go off on one and gave me a huge lecture about fostering. Appaently it's cruel and unfair to take children and show them the good life for a few weeks and then put them back. Also, apparently I am 'trying to replace the children I have not had myself'. I made my excuses and left around 4am. I wouldn't mind but I had been trying to leave since 2am but she would't take no for an answer. I was a bit upset by some of her comments, but realise she was drunk. I thought she would back track the next day but she didn't, she sent me a text saying she didn't mean to upset me but she only said it cause she cares - Right then.....[:0][:(]

All that aside I got up about 11am on Saturday and then took my sister to various shops, and today I rode about 12 miles on my bike and then took Little T to the local child friendly pub with my sister and her children - A great ut tiring weekend.

How are you? What have you been up too?

[Viki.W]

Hey Marie,

So sorry about your friend, I'd take it with a pinch of salt(what does that mean?!) She's obviously been very very drunk and then probably been too embarrassed the next day to admit it. If she really did mean it then not sure where's she's coming from really![?]

Wow, 4am eh, was it light out?![8D] I can picture you![:D]

I've just been in work and then spent some time in the garden this afternoon with my cat, she rarely goes out, only if I'm with her so I sat talking with her for ages, she's really good to talk to.[:I]

Day off tomorrow so CAN'T wait....it better be still sunny or there'll be trouble![:(!] I need a tan...I'm kind of an off white/greeny colour at the moment![xx(]

Viki X