Hi All
I have just been reading through this thread and was really encouraged by everyones responses with the creditors calling.
I have just had my first call this morning with regards to my probs. Melanie and team and helping me to sort things out so still in the first stages so to speak. Anyway I explained I was getting advice and help from an IP and the woman said 'well that isn't good enough you need to give us some money now'. I explained I couldn't and that I would be in contact shortly by letter with details. She kept going on and on at me and I felt really upset.
I said to her very calmly 'there is no need to be aggressive or harrass me - I am trying to sort the matter out'. She said 'I am trying to give you advice'. I said 'thank you kindly but I will stick to the advice from my IP'.
Anyway

She blahd on for a bit longer and I said thank you and bye and put the phone down.
I hate confrontation and she caught me unawares. I am scared about the calls but have now prepared a post-it-note checklist which is by the phone to ask them questions and to keep me focused so I don't get upset! If anybody has any other things I should remember or do/do not say on the phone your advice would be very welcome.
Well done all a total inspiration - loved the computer says no, vatican address and can't remember being born. A true classic.
Have a great day
Many thanks and have a good day.
Poppyfairy
There's an old zen saying 'Only an empty bowl can be filled'. It means that the moment you think you have nothing left is the moment when growth and progress become inevitable. Everytime you see an empty bowl, think of the potential.