Thanks for all the replies and honesty. It is nice to know that the good habits that have been picked up throughout the term are sticking.
We are 5 months in, and life isn't easy - but it's not supposed to be easy, eh.
We're always (ALWAYS!) down to our last few pound come the day before payday. This month is no different.... 18 days to go, and £100 left in the account. We've done the majority of the food shopping, petrol needs buying once more - then it's Christmas presents... somehow.
It is a relief knowing that, come 4.5 years time, we will be free and able to 'relax' a little.
My only concern is, as mentioned above, being able to pay for the emergencies without the fallback of a CC. If we need emergency housework, boiler, car etc - we'll be screwed.
We haven't told any of our family - which i think is common on here - and dont want to either... they'll only worry (more than they already do).
Thinking back - pre 1st baby (2nd due any day) and with the Wife working - it's incredible to even think we could survive losing £30k+ per year in salary (wife looking after kids).... some day, when she's back at work, we'll 'live like kings'
