Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
thanks mel for looking at letter, i've sent it recorded delivery to my IP'S, i know it won't be sorted until after the xmas holidays, but i'm hoping to hear something back before then.
i'll keep you all updated, cheers and merry christmas to all.
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I'm sure Mel will be in touch when she has seen the letter and this should hopefully put your mind at ease if nothing else.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
we havnt met our IP at all, the first time we spoke with her or him, still not sure which one it is, was at the court hearing via phone asking us to agree or lose the iva. we did have an agent come to our house to pick up all documentation, wage slips bank statements, car documents, ID and creditors statements. And thats all, all communication was done with office staff via phone, and thats because i called them.
mad realy, i wish i could start again with all the advicve i have know, i'm sure it would be a lot different, never mind i hope i've got the ball rolling now.
I spoke to my IP on the date of acceptance, otherwise it's a case worker I deal with, and to be fair, I'm more than happy with that at the moment.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
sorry Kallis,
i sent mel the letter via email, have now posted to my ip's. thanks for all your support, i just wish my husband would come on here and read some of the storys, he may feel a bit more optamistic for the futuer. he's so down in the dumps, i keep reasuring him.he is on wk 12 of patches, so next wk he has to go it alone, without cigs and patches its gonna be a rough ride, i'll need sea sickness pills!!!![:p]
kallis3 wrote:
I'm sure Mel will be in touch when she has seen the letter and this should hopefully put your mind at ease if nothing else.
He's obviously having a rough time, but he seems to be doing ok and I wish him well with giving up.
Get him to come on here - he'll love us all![:D]
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
I'm sure if he read some of the blogs he would see that there are a lot of us in the same position and it does help to know that you are not alone. If you can't talk to any of your real friends or family about it, your virtual family and friends are here anytime you want us.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
hi all, just to update you, i sent my letter to IP recorded delivery on wed, i put a letter of complaint, a letter about my family nd commitments, and a new inc/exp form with lots of reciepts. I thought i would have had a phonecall today, just to let me know they recievded it, maybe they'll call on monday.
Have you checked on the Royal Mail website to make sure that they have received it? You know what the post is like this time of year.
If you haven't heard anything by Monday afternoon, I'd give them a ring.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
HI Kallis, iv'e checked through tracking via royal mail, it says its being proccessed, it also says the same for a parcel i sent on the 1st dec, they don't seem to be updating it. I will ring IP tomorrow to see if they recieved it. thanks.
I hope they get in touch with you soon. I would give them a ring just to check they have received it.
Let us know the outcome.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
hi Kallis, just checked with Royal Mail, my first class recorded letter has been recieved this morning, 6 whole days, thats terrible, I will give my IP until thur eve to get in touch, if not i'll ring them on friday morn. thanks for keeping in touch. Also have put me foot down with hubby, he has to do the budget with me evry month, so that he can see its gonna be worthwhile, because i'm worrying within and he's just getting mad a lot. This time of year its so hard to see the bigger picture. thanks
That's not good, but at least you know it's there now.
Good idea to get hubby to sit down with you. Don't bottle it up either, much better if you can talk things out between you.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
