I am looking at taking out an IVA but I am so scared and at times suicidal about my position.

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Post by Kelly O » Thu Mar 14, 2013 12:27 pm
Thats no problem, we can also speak early evening if this is more convinient for you :-)
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Post by Denise.gn » Thu Mar 14, 2013 6:26 pm
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaagh. sorry just had to let that out. I had some time alone today so used this to ring the first two IVA companies on my list which I had compiled over a week ago, (and before I began using this forum). I also rang a no fee company. I wish I had now used this time to contact Melanie direct. The issue of the equity in my house is a real problem - and one I am getting so much conflicting advice about that it is making me feel even more stressed than before. One company again told me I have too much equity and that an IVA would not be applicable or accepted by the creditors, the other company told me that this was nonsense and you could still apply for an IVA if you have equity in your home which could cover the debt total, (if not more equity). Do they go on the for sale price, or the actual selling price? I have not had my house valued for many years and at present it is difficult to do that unless my mum goes out for the day. This is driving me crazy and making me lose the will to live. I felt so much better at the beginning of the week after reading your posts and blogs, deciding that I had to confront my problems and deal with them, and then deciding that an IVA was my preferred option, to secure my home, only to then receive all this conflicting advice, I feel like I am back to square one, with even more uncertainty now. I appreciate that every case is individual, but, surely there is a hard and fast rule regarding applying for an IVA, that if you currently have equity in your home which is level with or more than the total debt owed, you cannot apply for an IVA? I cannot get a remortgage due to my credit rating and am probably seen as high risk by most lenders despite the fact I have never defaulted on my mortgage or credit payments, and have no CCJ's so far. I feel as if I am trapped - too much debt, too much potential equity. BR is just not an option-I cannot lose my home, not for me as such, but for me mum. She has worked hard all her life for this home, to lose it would kill her. Please help
 
 

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Post by Shining » Thu Mar 14, 2013 6:44 pm
Do give Melanie a ring and I know she is my IP but she is also one of the best in the business if not THE best. Melanie will tell you what is what Im sure and once Melanie has reviewed your details you'll now where you stand.
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Post by Denise.gn » Thu Mar 14, 2013 6:57 pm
Thanks Lesley, I just feel so frustrated that I wasted so much of my valuable time plus my phone bill today. Plus I felt like I was getting somewhere with my problems and trying to be very proactive and deal with them head on, only to feel like I am now back to the beginning. I did send an online enquiry form to Melanie but I don't think I submitted it correctly or my internet is playing up again as I got a few error messages popping back. I had got my head around an IVA and was feeling like I was getting somewhere and taking control, but now I feel like my head is scrambled again and my only option is a DMP which is just my last option and one I wouldn't want to do if I could help it, although I know I don't have much choice at present. I did also receive some ongoing helpful advice from a lady at Vincent Bond, but I need to speak to someone so that they can either reassure me, or, tell me as it is and what my options are. I am now walking round the house looking at what my mum has worked hard for all these years, worrying I am going to lose it all for her, through my own stupidity as cant see any option but BR. Sorry, this is just not like me, I appreciate how I am coming across to you all on this forum, knowing you have all been in the same boat, most in probably a far worse situation than me, but at present I feel like I am drowning.
 
 

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Post by Foggy » Thu Mar 14, 2013 7:07 pm
Hi Denise. I can only repeat Lesley's advice and ask you to give Mel a ring as soon as possible. There are lots of "two steps forward, one step back" moments in life, and certainly in an IVA --- but the net result will still be one step nearer the goal.

You have done the hardest bit ---- recognising the problem. And the second hardest --- speaking to someone. Now, all we need do is find the RIGHT someone to chat with. You will get there .... one of those steps at a time. Just try not to panic.

I am not with Mel (but would be, given my time again) ... maybe next time ( I jest!), but she and her team genuinely care about the work that they do and about helping their clients. I have never had the pleasure of speaking with them on the phone, but am told it is a very helpful experience.
My opinions are merely that .. opinions based on experience. Always seek professional advice.
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Post by recovering » Thu Mar 14, 2013 7:19 pm
I had a drive by valuation done through mel and have equity! Please talk to mel
 
 

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Post by Denise.gn » Thu Mar 14, 2013 7:34 pm
Hi recovering, thanks for replying. Shall I continue to talk to you via this forum? I don't want to overload this forum with my problems and questions, but equally, would be good to speak to someone who is in a similar position to me?
 
 

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Post by recovering » Thu Mar 14, 2013 7:35 pm
Keep asking!
 
 

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Post by Denise.gn » Thu Mar 14, 2013 7:38 pm
Thank you x
Did you have enough equity in your house to repay your debt, when you were considering an IVA? According to house prices for sale around my area at present, my house would be valued at the same price, poss more, which would clear my debts, but I cant get a remortgage to do this. How did you manage to get around this?
 
 

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Post by recovering » Thu Mar 14, 2013 7:46 pm
I think its 85% of valuation? And the fact your mum has a stake is taken into consideration too i think? Really though mel will know the answers straight away i cant emphasize how much she explains things i was honestly in a worse state than you she will be around soon you really need to talk to her
 
 

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Post by Denise.gn » Thu Mar 14, 2013 7:50 pm
Ok I will definitely talk to her. Its just really hard to get some time when my mum is not around. She doesn't go out much and of course I cant give her any money to go out and look round the shops for a few hours to free me up...Is the 85 per cent the total of the debt or the amount of equity?
 
 

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Post by recovering » Thu Mar 14, 2013 7:51 pm
Im not an expert but the equity taken into account is 85% of valuation i think someone with more knowledge will correct me if im wrong
 
 

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Post by Denise.gn » Thu Mar 14, 2013 8:09 pm
Ok thank you. Did you encounter any other problems with getting your IVA set up, being a houseowner. Did you have to inform your mortgage company?
 
 

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Post by recovering » Thu Mar 14, 2013 8:15 pm
I didnt no not sure if ip company do but no issues so far
 
 

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Post by Hyperdrive » Thu Mar 14, 2013 9:54 pm
Denise the IP could sort it all out, especially the burden of stress. I`m not with Mel`s team myself but have learned enough about her on this forum to know she will be very professional and supportive. [:)]
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