Oh Sue, I wish I could give you a big hug as you really sound like you need one. I know I can't say or do anything to make you feel any better, but I am thinking about you, and you are bein so brave about this, and helping others on here as well. Don't give up on selling the house - give the estate agent a rocket up the backside and if things don't improve, as Melanie says, instruct another one. Just one thing about selling your house - if you are going to change agents try and do it before the end of May. I know it's not long, but if you change agents after 31st May you will need one of the new Home Information Packs (or should that be Rip Off Packs?). While it is still on with the same agent you are ok as you have 9 months from the date of instruction to sell the property, but if you change agents it is classed as a new instruction. Dave is getting our flat on the market next week because of this.
Regarding "Him", please don't give up. He has probably gone away to think things over. Dave was terrible for that when I first knew him - he often used to have to take time out from our relationship to think things through, and as he put it, 'find himself'. I came out of hospital after a knee operation and he announced he was off to find himself for a week - I never did know where he looked, but he was living in a bedsit at the time so it shouldn't have taken a week! It must have worked as we've been together 10 years in December! Good luck Sue, I really hope things work out for you xxx
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is the present - a gift to make the most of.
View my blog at
http://skippy13.blogs.iva.co.uk/