Hi sue and welcome to the forum
You will pay by standing order, as your bank account will either be freed or you will need to open a new one.
You do include child benefit, but this is usually then excluded from any income payments order on the basis that this money ought to be spent on your son.
I have no direct experience of dealing with the OR in St Albans, but they generally have a consistent approach from office to office.
Hope everything turns out well for you in the end!
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