Having such a rubbish time.

[michael.t47]

yes an to contact remaining creditors that i will be defaulting on during that period

[elizabethr]

Its really good to get so much support here and I am hoping I can make Bradford so can meet people. I have come to realise that live in general always has c... but its just degrees of it. I ahve just got rid of one lot of stress (c...) because sorting out the finances but work is becoming another form of (c...) - just changed job (not employer) and my new management is proving to be a nightmare. Not wanting to listen to other people's advise, quite bolshy about it as well and just found out they make people cancel leave if they want the same time off!!! My immediate manager had to cancel holiday abroad becuase the senior manager wanted the same week off. I have enought stress with hubby not being well and 12 year old to sort out without having to fight the get leave in holidays. Feeling very fed up. MIchael sorry to hijack your thread but just to show that we all going through it and we can all support each other. I think its worse for you at the moment because you both got stress and can't support the other. I have got some email addresses from the forum and its helped to talk to about things you don't want to put on the general thread. I have had relationship problems because of the stress but managed to get sorted - we actually divorced and then remarried each other. If you want my email just ask admin.

[michael.t47]

thanks elizabeth. and everybody else. i just so stressed out at the moment need a resolution soon

[michael.t47]

wife was unsuccesful in the new job application
i getting really worried now

[Skippy]

I'm really sorry your wife was unsuccessful Michael x

[michael.t47]

we are too, but hey
'always look on the bright side of life'
at the end of the day we still together an in love with each other
the creditors cannot kill us or force us to be apart
or can they?
hehe

[Skippy]

As long as you've got each other you'll get through this. Don't let the creditors come between you, it's only money and your marriage is more important x

[angela18]

glad you're more positive now

[michael.t47]

thanks to all of you an ang it was great chatting with you today
i now know that whatever happens i will sorry we will get throughthis
an we not alone

[michael.t47]

muddled or what

[angela18]

i'm not on msn michael as on laptop and its not got msn on

[michael.t47]

thats ok ang
wife an i talking
an really in love with eachother

[chardonnay]

Hi,
Just a note to say if you need to chat I'm also here - I'm a qualified nurse and I know what you are going through. I was suicidal a couple of weeks ago, but thanks to this site I'm now seeing the light at the end of a long, long tunnel.
What does your wife do for a living - maybe we can help find a suitable job for her? I was so sorry to hear she didn't get the last position, but don't give up - the right job is out there with her name on it!!
You are lucky to have each other and that alone will give you strength.
I'll find out how to leave my e-mail address with admin (pointers anyone on how to do that?). I am there for you all if you need medical/nursing advice... feel free to contact me.
Love & hugs,
Chardonnay

[Viki.W]

Ah Michael, I've just got in from work and saw your posts, so glad you feel a bit better and you've sorted it out. You sound like you have a lovely relationship, you are very lucky....but then I bet you knew that. Viki X

[michael.t47]

thanks viki an chardonnay
i love you all
she is a business manager for mcdonalds
off to bed now
chat tomorrow
i so glad you all out there