From a big high to a major low

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Hi all. I was feeling so good today after our IVA was accepted, thought it would take a weight off my mind. Then tonight some single brain cell moron decides to push over hubbies motorbike in the front garden for fun. Has now got 2 broken indicators, broken front and back fairing and badly scratched tank (possibly more, but won't know until we look in daylight). had already made an allowance for the MOT in Feb but now we will have to find £150 for insurance excess. Its also my sons birthday on sunday (luckily my mum is paying for his party). WHY WHY WHY!!!!! It just seems so pointless.

[johnz]

It's a sad fact of todays life that there are these gits out there who feel that the only way to have fun is to make other lives a misery. Personally, if I was in charge of law and order and could decide on punishments for these b******s, I'd take their property and make them watch while it was crushed.

I really feel for you, mate. Perhaps you can find someone to do the work who'll let you pay the excess in instalments. That's what I did when I had to have my car bumper replaced. They let me pay over 2 months, which was really kind of them. You can but ask. The worst they can say is no.

Johnz

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[:(]I'm just so fed up now. Was looking forward to a good nights sleep for a change. The police have been tonight and are doing a local patrol but I dont hold out much hope. I AM SO ANGRY.

[johnz]

I know it's difficult mate, but try to calm down. Something I say to my husband all the time is, if there's nothing you can do about it why use up all that energy being angry about it. I know it's a blow and you can't afford it. But things have a way of working themselves out. They really do mate. You'll get through this, and everything will be fine for a while.

HAve a cuddle with your bloke, maybe a glass of wine, curse all the idiotic yobs out there and then let it go until tomorrow. You'll be able to deal with it better if you can think clearly, eh.

Johnz