Baldy-there is nothing wrong with you giving your opinion on creditors and dont feel you should apologise for any comments you may have made about them.Everyone has their own experience of the way they have been treated in the past,yes,we are all adults and we all willingly borrowed the money,but how creditors react when circumstances change and we run into problems servicing our debt can often be a horrendous experience.
Our situation was we both had well-paid jobs,never missed a payment to anyone,I became ill and suddenly we were a wage down.
I worked in the credit industry and did try and speak to all our creditors,explaining our situation and tried to come to some arrangement with them whereby we could agree reduced payments.
I was self-employed so the week I finished work was when my wage stopped.
I hit a blank wall,so we sought professional help in the form of a dmp-as I have said that was a road to nowhere and we finally admitted defeat and went for the iva.
The creditors wanted proof that I was too sick to work,I had to send them all copies of a letter from my doctor stating this.
Who in their right mind gives up a well-paid job (which they love) to go cap in hand to their creditors.
I was disgusted at their reactions,as was my GP when I asked for the letter.
Those first few weeks I was going through agony,both mentally and physically - the creditors do not see us as human beings-a number of them werent satisfied with the payments we could afford on dmp and the harassment continued.
We had the philosophy of work hard,play hard-we had the luxury holidays,extensive work done on the house,anything we wanted we wanted there and then.
and for years,because we had the money coming in,creditors happily lent us the money because we could pay it back.We would pay off loans,immediately be offered another one,we were accepted for a together mortgage-125% of the value of our house,when we already had a secured loan running!!!!!
We never worried because we could afford it,no-one can predict what will happen in the future.
But-when the s**t hit the fan, all those years of paying on time,every time, dont mean a damned thing.
full and final accepted January 2015
iva agreed; August 2010
iva would have completed; August 2017
extra year thank's to NRAM