DMP or contact personally. So low head is a whirl

[j_d]

once again thankyou all for your support it really means the world to us.

my parents would be really hard to talk to seeing as they already helped me out once and are very much of the view that you live to your means you want something you save for it etc etc

Julie

But know it would be so much better if we could just get it all out in the open

hugs for all

julie

[Skippy]

Hi Julie, I can't add anything to what the others have said, but I just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking of you and your husband.

Regarding telling your parents, they may well be more understanding than you think. Telling my mum about my IVA was one of the most difficult things I have ever done, but she was fine, and even offered to release equity from her home to help me, which I said no to. Mind you, telling her that I was going BR was even worse! She was fine though, and has supported me through everything. She was actually more upset that I hadn't told her sooner.

Good luck to you, your husband and your baby. You will find a way through this, although I know you don't think so at the moment.

Onwards and upwards!!!

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[freelili]

I was scared to tell my mom also, I am so glad I did as she had picked up that something was really wrong and was pleased it was just financial,,,,.....just financial!!!!!!

LILY

fly me beyond the distant star, I will wish on tonight to see you smile just once more to know youre there.

[tracy.h]

Like you Lily i lost my mum but i no for sure if she was still about then id have had her support,i love the words at the bottem of your posts

[freelili]

Thank you Tracy, you really dont know what you've got til its gone. I am just having one of those miss you days, you know?

heres some more,
can it be I am forever loved by you watching me from up above, I believe that angels breathe and love lives on and never leaves.

LILY

fly me beyond the distant star, I will wish on tonight to see you smile just once more to know youre there.

[freelili]

I only just lost my mom, she died uexpectedly at christmasu, I had her full support. Sorry about you losing yours.

LILY

fly me beyond the distant star, I will wish on tonight to see you smile just once more to know youre there.

[tracy.h]

I lost my mum a couple of years ago now,but the pain never goes away.The thing is Lily as time goes by it makes you realise just what they did for you,how much you had,but i no shes always there looking over me and times like now i will try to be strong,as i no in my darkest hour that is what she would want,the bad days wont go away,but they will make you a stronger person,as i always think no matter how ive messed up financaily my mum would never have judged me ,im a good mum to my kids just like you are,and you will always have there love,so even when you are having down days,they will give us that unconditional love that our mums always gave us,thats what puts everything in perspective,and sees us through,i no its early days for you Lily and with everything else you are copeing with it seems so hard,but just remember,your mum lives on through you and your children and shes watching out for you every step of the way,you help so many people on this forum,with your kind words and wisdom,she will be proud of you.x

[freelili]

thank you, Its her birthday and I was just thinking of last year and how I just didnt realise that it would be her last and I just needed a cry today, I will be fine though. It will always be with me but its so much better than it was. I know that she wouldnt want me to be sad. (She might be miffed if she didnt get a tear today)

Thanks for your kind words, we support each other here, I was really supported when I joimed,soo grateful for that.

LILY

fly me beyond the distant star, I will wish on tonight to see you smile just once more to know youre there.

[scaredkez]

not meaning to hijack this post, but would like to say to lilly i will be thinking of you tomorrow, try and enjoy your day, and to all the others when you have a loss it does put things into perspective, all your loved ones who have departed will be thinking of you and will be so proud that you have the courage to stand up and admit your problems and are doing something about them, jd i am thinking of you also and hope your partner can get himself away from those horrible thoughts, remember you owe money not your lives and there will be a solution /light at the end of the tunnel for us all and we will all come out the otherside the better person.
jd you need to look after yourself also, i know its easy to say calm down but you must, what are your creditors going to do to you both, you cannot go to jail or be flogged through the streets, the pair of you try and get a good nights sleep and concentrate on the new arrival
i do hope things seem clearer soon, take care everyone, its so good to have the support here that we all need
kerri

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