Family values are so important Angela but I know from personal experience how clouded your judgement can be about a lot of things when you finally face up to your debt situation. We got through it with Melanie and she has given us a quality of life back by getting our proposal accepted, I'm not saying we're living the high life but we are living a life, before I would have rather paid the bills than go food shopping, now we go food shopping, not only is it a day out..yes a day for us as we hunt down bargains! We also get to eat proper food. Given us the security back to answer the phone and try and put a little by for the car tax etc., Before we lived on credit cards for day to day expenses, only now can I realise how wrong it was. Lesson learnt and only 3 months into IVA, I can guarantee I will never be in that position again too.
You hang in there and I promise it will be worth it!
IVA final payment left the bank on the 26th January 2013...looking forward to a debt free future.