Completely broke with no hope. Just survived a suicide attempt. Please help

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Niobe

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Post by Niobe » Wed Oct 17, 2012 11:37 am
So pleased to see you so upbeat and sorted and in full control of your destiny.

Long may it continue!!
 
 

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Post by Skippy » Wed Oct 17, 2012 12:40 pm
That's really good news Jilly and good luck to you both.

I'm glad you're going to stick around as well x
 
 

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Post by MelanieGiles » Wed Oct 17, 2012 1:56 pm
You are getting stronger by the day Jilly, and I'm so glad to hear that you are working things out together. I know the IPs at Money, Dent and Credit - and they are fellow board member of the DRF with me - so if I can help in any way on that front please let me know. They are a very good company who really do care about their clients.
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Post by Tina Shortland » Wed Oct 17, 2012 3:08 pm
Jilly I am so pleased to see your updates and read what progress you are making. It was not that long ago things were feelign very hopless for you so it is great that things are slowly looking more positive. If you and your husband can work things through together that will be great for you both and you can form a team to deal with everything else...and we will all be behind you as your new online buddies. There is plenty of help out there for couples and many services offer sliding scale fees wherem oney is tight. GPs can offer a short term no. of sessions and many churches have counsellors on board if you are church goers.

Either way, best of luck with it all and I look forward to hearing more from you. :-)
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Post by Shining » Wed Oct 17, 2012 3:10 pm
Jill that post has made me happy, I am so glad the pressure has been removed from you.

Do keep in touch with the forum x
IVA final payment left the bank on the 26th January 2013...looking forward to a debt free future.
 
 

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Post by Daniel Griffiths » Wed Oct 17, 2012 3:45 pm
Hi Jilly

What a great post you had a few folks worried for you, for some time, dont forget there are alot of Jillys out there who may now require your help and support I hope you stick around to help them.
 
 

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Post by Foggy » Wed Oct 17, 2012 3:55 pm
Great to see things on the up. When feeling overwhelmed, break the worries down into bite sized bits and tackle them one at a time ( not always easy, but it works for me). Together you will be stronger, both pulling in the same direction. Before you know it you will be out the other end and things will be rosier all round :-)
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Post by Bradders » Wed Oct 17, 2012 5:53 pm
Jilly thats great news, I'm really pleased to hear it.
Keep posting though, there are quite a few people on here who are determined to help you through this!
 
 

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Post by mummy1 » Wed Oct 17, 2012 6:08 pm
Dear Jilly
I am SO happy for you. I'm really glad things seem like they'll work out for you.
Good luck for the future , keep posting anyway,
Lots of love and hugs to you.[:)]
 
 

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Post by oscar » Thu Oct 18, 2012 10:36 am
Jilly keep posting and I am so pleased to read your latest post, nice one!
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Post by Niobe » Thu Oct 18, 2012 12:22 pm
You know where we are at anytime if you need us.
 
 

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Post by Hyperdrive » Thu Oct 18, 2012 12:27 pm
Pleased you are feeling on the way out of the black hole, it`s great to read [:D]
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