1. R1chard - You have some assertive views (nothing wrong with that!!) but I note that you have said that you are in an IVA yourself. Would you be kind enough to post what caused you to have to consider and enter an IVA? (Sorry if you have already done that and I have missed it!!!!)
i enterted into an iva as i broke up with my ex, and have gone from paying half a mortgage and bills to paying full rent and full bills.
ive a son, whos 4, 5 in november. i want to be able to buy him all the good stuff when hes older, hence ive gone on it now and not later.
im not blaming anyone - my own fault.. running up silly debts same as most others. living beyond my means,.
all i was saying is,. im very thankful for having my debts halved and now being able to relax and not worry about it.
i wasnt judging anyone, all i was doing was giving my point of view, and still i think we are all very lucky to off been accepted on an iva, and i feel we dont have a right to moan about allowed expendatures.
we are lucky we live in our kind of world, and we aint kneecapped or have everything we own taken and forced onto the streets to pay back what we owe.
i dont see how we can have a right to demand more money for our children, as long as they are fed and warm, new clothes and that are superficial, and moaning about it is more of a pride thing then a neccasarty.
again I AM NOT JUDGING ANYONE.. Mearly giving a point of view..
lots of payments to go.