Hi, Minnie. Your husband's situation sounds very similar to mine. I built up credit card debt of £75,000 over 15 years, which works out at £5,000 a year.
When people hear about the amount of debt you are in they ask what you spent it on, a Ferrari or a round the world cruise. They don’t appreciate that it is debt built up over time, not in one go. Like your husband, I could continue to pay my bills by using my credit cards, but eventually the money ran out. I contacted PayPlan at the end of March this year, and my IVA was approved on 13 June. PayPlan also required a brief summary from me explaining how I had got into debt. They don’t use it to judge you, but your creditors will need to see it as part of their process. Although I wasn’t completely honest with my wife in the past, she has been very supportive, and you will really need to work together top make it successful. Please make sure that you and your husband fully understand what is involved and that your income & expenditure report is accurate and the proposed repayment is achievable. With regard to changing banks, I banked with HSBC, my largest creditor, but changed to the Co-Op, who I had no financial interest with. I opened a normal current account with no overdraft facility, as an overdraft is not allowed in an IVA as it is unsecured debt. Good luck to you both.