I apologise for my previous thread if I offended anyone especially Luluj. I will leave the forum for a bit if I can but it does help me when I am low.
I only worry about losing the house and impacting the kids but that is the same for all in the same situation. I have cut the grass and cleaned the conservatory roof
Thanks everyone !!! for all your support I do value it
Last edited by Ox1987 on Sun May 05, 2013 2:44 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Ox - As foggy indicated there is no need to apologise . "Now i am going to make a sweeping statement, most people on here are trying to support you through this difficult time". But just some times your own needs would be better served elsewhere - rather than the endless circle of a public forum comments.
Firstly if you feel your moods have darkened then let your GP know, there is also a wide professional support networks and organizations offering practical help and support. TWO being SANE / MIND.
I have spoken to samaritans when mood was really dark but they helped a bit
I will speak to GP again when I go next week to get dosage upped
I need to get through this and I know I have support on here
Going to watch a movie now with the family and have friends round for dinner tmw should help also
Last edited by Ox1987 on Sun May 05, 2013 6:06 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Its worth speaking to SANE /MIND - both are mental health charities and play an active role in improving mental health services and both have vast amount of resources and information at their finger tips.
I have told him everything and he prescribed citrolpram but maybe I need the dosage increased as It has not touched the anxiety and stress or maybe they need longer to kick in. I have good moments like now I dont feel to bad but then it gets worse when I am not busy and I think about the problems and the too many what ifs over the house and the car as i don't want to lose either.
I am really over the top compared to others in the same position that I may need the mental health charities, that scares me I thought it was just stress related to the debt and if we could get through ok then it would go away.
The kids are being wonderful playing and messing about they are happy at the moment and that is good
I will try and not go round in circles else this will get locked also
Last edited by Ox1987 on Sun May 05, 2013 5:00 pm, edited 1 time in total.
OX1987.
think about your kids through this as they will not give a toss what your financial situation is.they know and love only you so be strong and get through this point in your life and then carry on what you do best and then after you can do the things you always wanted too.keep strong for them if not for yourself.
cc received 6th January 2014 now upwards and onwards
Ox I`m on Citalopram, have been for over 2 years now. I know the depths depression can send you. I`m living proof that medication and an IVA (or another solution) makes life not only worth living, but wonderful again. The financial pressures built up over a decade for me and I never imagined I could be this happy again.
You`ll get there - one step at a time. There is a future[:)]
Ahh i love Rio!!! Really lovely kiddy film! hehe!! Ive got a grouchy baby tonight so roll on bedtime for them all! Spending the day with my mother in law tomorrow and her 3 foster kids...removed from parents due to severe neglect abuse and drugs Ox...not debt have a nice evening. Relax and enjoy a chilled beer once the children are in bed. Stay positive!
have a nice evening. Relax and enjoy a chilled beer once the children are in bed. Stay positive!