This is my first post on this forum, Im not sure if I have posted this in the correct place, appologies if not.
Im sorry this may be a bit of a long post. Last year I seperated from my ex. We had a house (which was in my name only, no mortgage company would touch my ex!!) with a secured loan (the secured loan was in both our names). When my ex left it wasnt on good terms and he refused to help with payments on the secured loan while the house was on the market. I started falling behind with my unsecured debts because I was trying to keep up with the payments on the mortgage and the loan. I was having to pay gas, electric etc on my credit cards. Then to make matters worse I was made redundant from my job, I managed to find another job within 2 weeks of losing the one, but took a massive drop in wages (approx 500pound a month) so I fell behind on everything, which resulted in my house being repossessed

I was taken to court by both my mortgage provider and the secured loan provider. The house has not as yet been sold, but Im expecting a short fall of approx 37K including the secured loan (a high short fall,due to the current housing crash)
Whilst all this was going on I was falling futher and futher behind with my unsecured debts (approx 7k worth) so I entered in a DMP with Baines and Ernst, I wish now that I had shopped around a little but I was just getting so stressed with all the phone calls and debt collectors that I just wnted it sorted. Every spare penny I have is being paid into this DMP, and Im really struggling to live, I was really poorly last month and couldnt afford my prescription

It was so embarrassing having to ask my parents if I could borrow the money for it. After speaking with Indra Weight from VincentBond yesturday and getting advise about IVA's, I have discovered that Im paying an alot and should have been given more allowances, Im currently paying B&E 233pound a month, ill be talking to them about this this week to see if we can lower the payment at all.
Anyway, I have thought long and hard about my options for when I get the official shortfall figure from the sale of the property. I have been so stressed out and upset about this and had no idea what I was going to do. I did feel much calmer and much more positive after speaking with Indra,and had pretty much decided to go with an IVA, however today I have spoken with somebody who said that as I have no assests Bankruptcy would be the best option for me. Now up untill this point, I had been wanting to do anything that avoided me having to declare myself bankrupt, but now Im not sure what would be the best option for me.
Im soon to be moving to Aberdeen to start a new job, I have a place to live lined up, nice and cheap, all bills included in my rent, so an IVA would be affordable, but those living arrangements are not going to be permanent and eventually I would be moving into a place of my own so an IVA at that point may not be affordable, I wold hate to be paying into an IVA for 1/2 years then move and not be able to continue.
Then theres declaring myself bankrupt, if I do it up in Scotland, then I think Im bankrupt for 3 years rather than the 12 months it would be down here, Im also worried at what my new employer would think of me when they are informed of my bankruptcy, I know I shouldnt let this influence my decission but Im worried it could affect my job.
Im so confused guys and have absolutely no idea what to do. Any advise and opinions much appriciated.
Erin