Good evening everyone, firstly may i wish you all have very happy new year!
As you will see this is my first post on here, but have been in the background for sometime and have always found my answers on here somewhere so I thank you for keeping this site alive its been a real font of knowledge for us.
A little back ground on us, we have been in our IVA now for nearly 2 years (July will be 2yrs) and we have had no issues or problems since being in the IVA and to be honest its been the best thing that we have ever done, and im glad that in another 3 yrs there will be a light at the end of the tunnel for us.
My reason for posting is as stated in the subject, i really need some information/advice on a little question that i have.
We are expecting our first baby in June of this year, we are both very happy and very excited at starting a family, I know this is far from the best time to start expanding our family as we have committed to this IVA, but we had been trying a long time prior to going into the IVA and to be honest we were on the verge of giving up, but we have found out that i am expecting our first. I am 32 years old and was getting a little worried that if i waited till the IVA was over my slim chance of having a baby would be nearly extinct!!
I have not informed our IVA company yet, as we have had many problems in the past we have decided to wait off on telling too many people (i know declaring it on here is a little bit of a contradiction!) till we have had our 20 week scan to make sure all is well.
I know in the past when i have chatted off the record to our contact at the IVA company they have said that they would do their best to help and make things a little more bareable and that they would take into account that its only temporary (6-9 months) as i would have to go back to work regardless, but im worried due to the SMP that i would get, how do IVA companies help? what do they do to help us or should i not expect to much.
Any help, advice or information would be GREATLY appreciated.
Many thanks
Roisin
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