Modification - Partner find job
Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2020 2:14 pm
Hi all,
I had my IVA accepted last week with Payplan. I work full time and my partner looks after our 2 year old daughter. He is a self employed Musician (and obviously due to the current situation work has dried up). The debt is mine alone. I feel that this IVA will teach me to live within my means and stop whacking things on the credit card. We receive UC and obviously the less my partner earns the more we receive and the more he earns the less we receive. One of my modifications was that my partner must obtain work as soon as possible, and I accepted this - as next year they have gigs booked etc and things will improve. I understand the creditors want more in the household pot - so more goes into the IVA payment. £21000 debt paying £140 odd a month going down to £114 in a few months.
I am so worried now - I don't want to push my partner into work until my daughter is a bit older. It would be a false economy - he would have to earn quite a bit to put anything more into the household pot. My sister said she would be willing to clear my IVA with a full and final when the amount I owed was a little lower (once I have made say a year or so of payments).
I am just worried I have made a bad decision, on one hand I feel relieved but on the other I feel completely stressed (it wouldn't be so bad if the modification was for me).
Has anyone else been in this situation?
I just think the worst that could happen if he fails to find anything is that the IVA fails and I am back in the situation I was in before. I just wanted to say - I love this forum has been so helpful and good to read other peoples experiences and to know that I am not alone!
I had my IVA accepted last week with Payplan. I work full time and my partner looks after our 2 year old daughter. He is a self employed Musician (and obviously due to the current situation work has dried up). The debt is mine alone. I feel that this IVA will teach me to live within my means and stop whacking things on the credit card. We receive UC and obviously the less my partner earns the more we receive and the more he earns the less we receive. One of my modifications was that my partner must obtain work as soon as possible, and I accepted this - as next year they have gigs booked etc and things will improve. I understand the creditors want more in the household pot - so more goes into the IVA payment. £21000 debt paying £140 odd a month going down to £114 in a few months.
I am so worried now - I don't want to push my partner into work until my daughter is a bit older. It would be a false economy - he would have to earn quite a bit to put anything more into the household pot. My sister said she would be willing to clear my IVA with a full and final when the amount I owed was a little lower (once I have made say a year or so of payments).
I am just worried I have made a bad decision, on one hand I feel relieved but on the other I feel completely stressed (it wouldn't be so bad if the modification was for me).
Has anyone else been in this situation?
I just think the worst that could happen if he fails to find anything is that the IVA fails and I am back in the situation I was in before. I just wanted to say - I love this forum has been so helpful and good to read other peoples experiences and to know that I am not alone!