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Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 7:30 am
by Beans on Toast
Up again at 5.30 this morning, feeling about as good as weather outside!! Our creditors meeting is at 1pm on Monday and starting to feel sick. I was in the Army and had to deal with some bad things, but this, [:(]

Don't want the wife to sense how I feel, we have no secrets but I am really apprehensive about this and I don't want to worry her as I know it will keep her awake for the whole weekend.

We talk it all through on an evening 'cos I know it helps to reassure her, we look at posts on the site and it makes us laugh again [:D] I just want the day to get here now and we can hopefully start our lives again. Keep up the posting folks, it really is the best forum on the net.

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 7:41 am
by MelanieGiles
Over 90% of all IVA cases are now being accepted, so I am sure you will be fine on Monday. Given your very positive mental attitidue, which is very apparant through your postings, I am sure you will sail through it!

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 7:42 am
by angela18
try not to think about it BoT.. try and enjoy your weekend and I'm sure by Monday night, you'll wonder what all the fuss was about!!

I'll have to try and take my own advise when my date eventually comes around!!

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 8:39 am
by debbiw
Good Luck BOT, I'm sure you will be fine. Try not to worry.

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 8:58 am
by kal
Good luck B.O.T. - I'm sure you wil be fine, and a huge weight will be lifted for you by Monday evening.
k.

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 9:15 am
by buttercup
Good luck for Monday I am sure you will be fine

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 9:50 am
by casiquebrado
Good luck Monday BoT , I was relatively calm before my Cr. Mtg. last Friday , which was approved with mods.
It's natural to think 'what if..', but you're in good hands.

ATB

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:43 am
by Beans on Toast
Thanks everyone, it's great having this extended family, really cheered me up [:D]

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:49 am
by Lisa2009
Im sure your IP would only put forward an offer they thought would be accepted so for now just try to relax and keep thinking positive.

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 11:10 am
by m15
hello everyone does anyone know what a money judgement order mean. iam going bankrupt and i have a mortgage with n/rock and a secure loan with picture. and chris g kindly show me someone who picture took them to court and the judge gave them this. HELP PLEASE!!!

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 11:12 am
by Martha07
Good luck beans on toast. My cresitors meeting is Monday at 10.15 so I'm feeling the same as you.

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 11:12 am
by worryhead
I know exactly how you are feeling, but it really is not as worrying as you might think. as Melanie says 90% are being accepted, i did not think i was going to be accepted, but your IP would not propose this if they did not think it would go through, honestly try and chill (easier said then done) i made myself ill for a week before by stressing to much, and now i think well there was no need to worry :) Sending positive thoughts to you :) x

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 11:18 am
by MelanieGiles
A money judgement order is similar to a CCJ but only allows for the collection of monies and not the possession of goods. It usually relates to mortgage shortfalls.

Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 12:07 pm
by emma_t
Hi again B O T , what you are feeling is completely normal, I was the same and felt really sick on the day of the meeting. Afterwards it took me quite a while to settle down as I think all the turmoil and stress you go through proposing your iva comes down to a single phone call and its hard to believe thats it!
I am sure you will be fine as Melanie says the vast majority of proposals are accepted, so try to not let it take over your weekend.

Keep busy on Monday and have a pen and paper ready on Monday in case you get any modifications you need to discuss, and remember you don't have to agree there and then on the phone, if you get any mods you can have a think about it before agreeing, so don't feel under and presure.

Good luck and please remember to post your result[:)]
Emma x

Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 10:52 am
by Skippy
Good luck for Monday Beans, and let us know how you get on x