Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 10:11 am
My uncle is terminally ill and isn't expected to live for much longer. My manager has said that although he won't be able to give me compassionate leave for the funeral they will give me unpaid leave (I don't have enough holiday left). As this will obviously leave me short of money, my partner has told me to reduce the money I give him for the mortgage and bills that month to cover the day's leave and flowers etc.
I have to send my wage slips to my IP each month, so I will have to explain why there is a shortfall. My question is, will they think that if my partner can manage without my money for the month he doesn't actually need it and therefore ask for an increased contribution? This obviously isn't the case, he is just helping me out.
Sorry to ask such a morbid question but this is worrying me. Thanks in advance for your advice.
Three down, fifty seven to go until freedom!
I have to send my wage slips to my IP each month, so I will have to explain why there is a shortfall. My question is, will they think that if my partner can manage without my money for the month he doesn't actually need it and therefore ask for an increased contribution? This obviously isn't the case, he is just helping me out.
Sorry to ask such a morbid question but this is worrying me. Thanks in advance for your advice.
Three down, fifty seven to go until freedom!