www.iva.co.uk

I just wanted eveyone to know how wonderful these two people have been to me. Although they made me cry tonight........through being so kind. [:)]

I genuinly appreciate every single person that has ever supported me or somebody else who has been struggling on this site. I can totally sympathise with anyone who feels like I do right now (a total mess), but like everyone else (I presume) I cannot handle feeling like this myself. I always think what ashame I wish there as something I could do to help, but now I'm having an off week I feel like I'm whining. Hope this makes sense.

Just to enlighten everyone as to what the two people above have done - they have both taken extra time to email me direct with words of support and kindness, this meant a lot to me.
xx[:)]

Hi
Sally[Admin]is a bit of an unsung hero
Regards

hi marie
you not alone
we all here for each other
an hopefully we all get through this together

hi hun! you are really sweet and i didnt mean to make you cry lol!

we are all in this together, some of us just a bit further along than others. you are not a mess you are just having a down time at the moment, you will bounce back and in a few weeks your iva will have been accepted - melanie does not take these things on to fail!

try to enjoy the bank holiday with your family and if the phone calls get too much unplug the phone for a while!

chin up - us forum buddies are made of tough stuff!

love barb x

I second that Sally is an unsung hero, too.

Marie, we have all had days and weeks that we have found very difficult to cope with, as Barb says some of us are much further down the line than others. It does help when others are supportive in a time of need but dont beat yourself up for being in that need. Its Okay to feel down sometimes, how can you not, really? No matter how hard you try right now, youre not going to feel on top of the world, there will be good days and very bad days, we are all in it together and really want to help.

many thanks.. [:I]
but its not true !
Its you folks who are clawing your way back up the cliff who are the heroes and I can only watch with bated breath and deep deep admiration.
.. but thanks all the same [:)]
sally.

Awwww sally, what a nice post.

I don't feel like a hero tho, just an idiot that spent too much money lol. It's quite depressing when i think where i could be in life if i hadn't been so irresponsible...That's probably why i try not to think about it lol ;o)

Sally's emails are always so sweet. She just sits in the background but its always very fast if you need her.

I've never met Sally - but she does a great job on the forum. We'll have to get her to one of the frugal friends evenings, wherever she lives nearest to!

The supportive emails from Sally are always more than welcome if you're having a tough time, she is a unsung hero I have to agree x

Yes Sally does sound lovely and she sorted all our avatars and user names out, which I thought was brilliant. Barb has been so supportive and always knows what to say to make you feel better. I'm so sorry you were upset Marie, hope you are feeling a little better today. Thinking of you, Viki X

Great idea Melanie

Sally, any chance you could come to Portsmouth on May 10th ?

Hi and many thanks for the invite, but I shall be away on a drumming and dance weekend [:)]

cheers, sally.