Posted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 10:48 pm
Q1) I am considering an IVA. (Clear Start – can anyone advise are they any good?).
Q2) Although my name is on the mortgage, and there is equity, my wife has paid all the mortgage since inception. (it's simply the case that I have always been self employed and my wife has always been in employment and she has always been fearful of exactly what - unexpectedly - has happened, as a similar thing happened to her sister previously).
Needless to say the debt problem has caused us to split & she is adamant she will prevent any attempt to me claiming any equity. (I don't blame her for this - she has paid it for the last 10 years).
Nevertheless, I'm hoping that, if I can show her I can sort my own problems out, there might be some chance to get back together in the future.
One of the big things she is furious about is that, although I have moved out and divorce is on the cards, she believes my IVA will also affect her credit rating through association. Can anyone tell me is this true?
I'm desperate to try to appease her - not for the equity but because I love her
Q2) Although my name is on the mortgage, and there is equity, my wife has paid all the mortgage since inception. (it's simply the case that I have always been self employed and my wife has always been in employment and she has always been fearful of exactly what - unexpectedly - has happened, as a similar thing happened to her sister previously).
Needless to say the debt problem has caused us to split & she is adamant she will prevent any attempt to me claiming any equity. (I don't blame her for this - she has paid it for the last 10 years).
Nevertheless, I'm hoping that, if I can show her I can sort my own problems out, there might be some chance to get back together in the future.
One of the big things she is furious about is that, although I have moved out and divorce is on the cards, she believes my IVA will also affect her credit rating through association. Can anyone tell me is this true?
I'm desperate to try to appease her - not for the equity but because I love her